I’m a chubby woman that apparently needs more confidence, where do I begin?

[Anonymous]

I find having confidence wouldn’t matter. Any guy I’ve gone for never truly likes me back - perhaps temporarily- but never long term.

How do I attract long term guys and how do I detect them?

[ohsheeT]

Ok let's start from the beginning

Who is apparently you need to tell apparently to stay out of it.

You might not think so. But all your life all the people in your life who has done anything negative or has said anything negative and this includes your self .. and I'm glad I didn't hear it in your question has talked you in to that there is something wrong with you. And apparently. You believe them and yourself

After awhile of hear anything negative ,, even though you may not see it or realizebut you are believing it. And when she believe something that's who you become

So let's\nDo a test an experiment...
But you really have to do it

And uf you can do it it will change your life for the best you will see and become a new you..

Every morning when you wake up get a glas if water .. if you dont know this water has memory. Would love to get in too every thing about water. But not today... anyway pour yourself a glass of water dont dring bottle water because in many cases. It's worse than your tap water.. anyway before you drink anything else or eat anything? Hold that glass of water with both hands tell it thank you

Thank it for remembering you for helping you become healthy wealthy wise skinny and happy.

Talk to it praise it and take it every day for thirty days

Tell it thank you for making you confident for making you skinny for making you happy and as you drink that water with both hands taste that water

Ask it for anything you want but when you ask you have to mean it. Love it and say these things as you're drinking down the water.

First of all it will start.
Erasing all the negative that just by living life from your young age. Today, all the negative things will start to disappear. Water is the most healthiest thing in this world. For you talk to it nicely. It will help you. It will cure your body.

We are all made with energy your and it's spiritual its transparent but you will feell it within you

• I know you might think its crazy but it not and after 30 day you have to post a new question about you telling us about your experience and every little thing it has helped you

[Anonymous]

Well until you start believing you can how are they supposed to believe it?

I've been attracted to fat and skinny women alike. But one thing I've found in all the fat women I've been attracted to was they all owned who/what they were. They didn't apologize for it, nor did they believe they were less than, because of it.

Now just because I said this does not mean every guy is going to dig you. And maybe you just happen to, by the luck of the draw, be choosing every guy that doesn't dig you. Most women don't dig me either, but I don't beat myself up about it. Because I KNOW it's her mistake. She missed out! You have to start believing that. Don't be very hungry for a relationship. Live your life, entertain the opposite gender, and your personality WILL attract the right guy.

Good luck.👍

[fonduegirl]

Oh yeah, men like them skinny.

I know because I'm chubby too. It's like, I'm lacking

[RHK36]

I'm guessing that you aren't going after over weight guys. So if you aren't, why would guys line up for you. Lose some weight, it'll build your confidence and honestly it is just good to be healthier. Caring about yourself and taking care of your body comes across as attractive.

[SotiCoto]

You don't need confidence. That is what people don't get... Your beliefs about yourself are not the same as others' beliefs about you, and it is the latter which will determine your success in relationships.

Oh, and ignore anyone advising you to lose weight. Forget that. Better guys prefer bigger girls. If you cave to the social pressure and try to lose weight, you'll only end up appealing to vapid, shallow, small-minded, small-dicked losers.

[Ask105]

Your insecurity is being chubby work out i have insecurity’s im working on them you can two don’t ignore them women in shape portray to men that she takes care of herself other chubby guys will like you tho just trying to help is all

[Cormac995]

Lose the weight is your best option simply put. If you want attention from men you need to be attractive to them and being overweight does nothing but hurt your chances.

[Asker]

I’m not going to change who I am just to be accepted or just to please others.

[Cormac995]

then you're going to have a heart attack at 40 and die alone and unloved by anyone.

[Ironic_Method]

Forget about physical traits and see if you're be the kind of person that the person you're trying to attract would love to hang out with.

That's where the longevity lies.

[capriVib]

Forget it bro, there are a lot of guys who love chubby women too, even if some guys don't stick around, they're not more important than you. If you're overthinking it, u could get a gym membership.

[bowenw]

Try to meet as many guys as you can by doing things where you will meet them, like joining clubs or a team. Get to know them by talking to them.

[HighValue]

Find a short, weak, poor man. Don't go for people far out of your league.

[Staximus]

How many of these guys that you've "gone for" were chubby like you?

[BarryLiverstone]

Focusing on your health and maintaining a healthy weight would help you attract guys

[seeyounexttuesday]

Begin in the gym.

[jahaims]

Get healthy