I never approach women because I'm scared of being labeled a creep or them seeing me for only wanting them for their bodies?

[Anonymous]

I actually just want to meet a girl I can make happy. How can I change this?

[Ask105]

So i have same problem its a bad mind frame seriously is just gotta work on your approach get a script of what you will say at different points of interaction to her compliment her on her outfit or ear rings then and say how you today she says good you say back what you doing today she can be like just grabbing something cool im doing this today what are you usually do for fun tease her no way when she says that or tease her on something she’s wearing etc be like hey i really liked talking to lets get a smoothie i know a good place around here and say i need to get your number before i go that was just a surface level interaction idea to be honest man you have to work on multiple scripts and things you can say to make her laugh and engage her but just be confident i struggle with the same thing and you will probably never see her again there's way more to say you want to talk her like 5 minutes before a number ask practice bro watch video guys doing simple cold approach and get little note pad etc

[Ask105]

You have to continuously get rejected like me a man he's never been told he was unattractive by a woman until you can have a baseline script that works on them all girls go off feeling emotions spike her interest level freaking headache but you have to study i don't care what anyone says and go with a guy friend or meet a guy group these girls give non verbal cues they dont know what its like to have to speak to them its like getting good at door to door sales

[MattBlair21]

I used to have trouble approaching women too, for reasons somewhat similar. I approached my current girlfriend because I thought she was the most beautiful thing I've ever seen.
Although extremely nervous, I simply just said Hi and asked her how her day was going. Then, I made a comment about the music playing at bar/restaurant we were at. This developed into an engaging conversation. I got her number and that's that.

[Anonymous]

You can wait your life away.
Or you can keep trying until you find the woman who gets you for you.
You'll never find her while waiting.
You stumble across them when least expecting it.

You only need one woman and that is who you are looking for. The others are matches meant to fit other people.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Then work on your approach if you are worried about it. Don't just use the basics. You have to stand out to be noticed. Be funny and confident (not cocky). If you are doing those, then it ups your chances of not coming off creepy (at least to me anyway).

[Asker]

Thank you for the advice I'm naturally a funny person and I would like to be natural with my approach. I just don't want to make a woman feel uncomfortable or feel like I'm putting her on the spot.

[Anonymous]

I'm in the exact same place. I wish I had answers, but I don't I've just kept trying and keep getting shot down. It's incredibly nerve wracking asking a woman out because I have the same fears.

[SotiCoto]

Don't approach them then.
Sit down, get out a book, and read. Women will come over to inquire.

[Anonymous]

make yourself so visually attractive that they approach you first

[Abbycado]

Come on dude….🙄

[Asker]

Sorry for looking for a respectful way to approach Women in 2025.. any angle can be a disadvantage if they find you attractive first so I'd figure I'd get some tips..