Does a kiss at the end of the night usually mean a second date?

Question

I went out with a guy for the first time last night. He did kiss me at the end of the night. I was thinking back, and there have been very few times that a guy kissed me at the end of the night that we didn't go out again. This made me think about nonverbal communication. Is it true when a guy kisses you at the end of the night that there is a good chance you will get another date.

TrimmedTip · Accepted Answer

A first-date kiss often signals interest—but it’s not a guarantee. Here’s the breakdown:

Good sign: He’s physically attracted and comfortable escalating.
Gray area: Could just be a polite/opportunistic move (especially if alcohol’s involved).
Nonverbal ≠ contract: Some kiss to avoid awkwardness, then ghost.
Your track record? Likely a mix of his genuine interest and your vibe—if you’re the type who kisses only when you’re feeling it, that filters out half-hearted guys.

Pro tip: Watch for post-kiss cues—a lingering hug, a ‘when can I see you again?’ text, or plans made on the spot. That’s the real tell.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

If I did not want to see a lady for a second date, I usually explained at the end of the date that I thought we were not a good match and I wished her good luck in her search. I never tried to kiss her.

If I wanted to see a lady a second time, I would hold her hand, tell her that I enjoyed my time with her, and I would move towards her in hopes that she felt the same and I would get a good night kiss.

No games played.

SecretsofKB · Accepted Answer

Personally, I never kiss someone on date that I know is not going anywhere. To me that feels like giving a message of approval. It would give me whiplash if I got a kiss on a date, then the next day they told me it wasn't going to work.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Most likely, though there's never a 100% guarantee.

Summeroflove · Answer

For the most part it means it’s going well but if you feel things are moving too fast communicate. Communicate how you feel and ask how he feels when you’re unsure.

ohsheeT · Answer

Yes could mean that or could also mean when we wake up what kind of breakfast we're gonna have together. Just depends on. The kiss

AviatorTom · Answer

A kiss at the end of a date is clear indication he wants to see you again.

SphynxUK · Answer

Depends. Some people kiss to thank you for a lovely evening. If you are unsure, think about the type of kiss he gave or ask him for a second date if you felt it went well.

emilysarter · Answer

That's a great observation! A kiss at the end of a first date is usually a very strong nonverbal cue that he's interested and attracted, so the chances of a second date are definitely high. It's a classic sign of "I had a great time and want more."

It's funny how that moment can feel like its own little purity test—it definitely moves you out of the "just friends" zone! If you're ever curious about where you stand on the spectrum of experiences, the Rice Purity Test ( is a lighthearted way to reflect. Congrats on the great date

Sensmind · Answer

You make a good point about non verbal communication. A kiss at the end of the first date would seem to signify a level of comfort, a willingness to move forward towards a second date. I would imagine if this comfort was not there would be a more awkward salutation ( e. g. a goodbye ) or a more formal exchange like a polite handshake. I think a more interesting measure to reflect on is how you felt about the kiss as an indicator of the possibility of a second date and how it would go.

jazzy34 · Answer

Until he  verbally  asks you out again, don’t assume  anything.  Just go on about your life.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Not for me. I kiss everyone regardless.

__Nikki__ · Answer

I'd say generally yes, I wouldn't kiss someone I wasn't interested in for another date.

beaves11 · Answer

A girl kissed me twice in a first date. Then proceeded to ghost me.  I don't know,

NoDecision · Answer

I always thought so. If you didn't like the guy why would you kiss him? I guess you will have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince. 🐸🐸🐸🐸

Zack-Bann · Answer

A lack of a kiss at the end of the night is a bad sign usually  That doesn’t mean kiss = 100% second date You both still need to keep in touch and allow for it to happen

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

It should. Why would I kiss someone if the date was bad?

BCRanger10 · Answer

It might, it might not. I don't know. This is why I've always said that the "first kiss" should be after you become a formal couple.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Well... ;-)

OneViewpoint · Answer

LOL, she may get a better offer tomorrow. A kiss at the end of the night means nothing but basic courtesy. A face handshake.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

A lusty lips-smacking and/or a long, intimate kiss usually conveys that chance there'd be a follow-up.

dudeinohio · Answer

Not necessarily. My generation always kissed at the end of the first date. Didn't mean a second one.

nawtee_me · Answer

It could also mean see you later…. The kiss itself doesn’t mean much without the words to go with it. I had a good time and would like to do it again sometime. Or, it was fun but I don’t think we are right for one another.

JesseP1nk · Answer

No, it does not mean a second date. Him telling you to go out again with him means a "second date" . Men are simple, do not overanalyze it.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Yes/ Often, it means a second date is a strong possibility.

JohnnyB123321 · Answer

I’ll makeout with anyone for the most part. If the girl wants to kiss a little, that doesn’t mean anything to me.

WonderingManII · Answer

I have no idea because I have never been on a date.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I think so. Maybe take the imitative and ask him out!

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

A date doesn't always have to end with a kiss, still there will be a second and third time...

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes and you take her to the wrestling matches then Dennys after lol 😂 🤠

WhitneySnow · Answer

Usually but it’s not guaranteed

Anonymous · Answer

I have no idea, I never had a date, or a kiss.

Avicenna · Answer

Absolutely

chrissykerdock · Answer

if he cums in your mouth it does

Likes2drive · Answer

Usually, yes, if it was on the lips

avery58 · Answer

I'd say that more than likely yes

exitseven · Answer

I my limited experience I say that it does.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Maybe. Did you plan the 2nd date and ask him out?

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Grow up. You’re not in high school anymore

Jeff51 · Answer

I think so.

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely no guarantees

Anonymous · Answer

Wow you're an asshole

Anonymous · Answer

Ask?

MasterKS · Answer

May not always.

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