Is it racism to expect one race to bring more to the table to be given an equal chance to date someone?

[Anonymous]

For example, Asian males, despite being the hardest workers, highly educated and the least likely to be dead beat dads often get systematically discriminated in dating during their teens and early adult life according to a Yale study. In this video below, a college professor mentions that for an Asian man to be viewed equally in a white woman's mind, for a relationship, he has to make over 100k+ more than his white counterpart.

Funnily enough, a somewhat related pattern can be seen as we get older. A lot of women will date exclusively white males in their physical prime, but as they get older and less attractive, are open to dating other races. One can conclude from this that many of these women may view non-white men as lower value compared to whites. As if these men were seen as equal to white males, these women would have given these men an equal chance at dating them in their physical prime and not wait until they are no longer at their physical best.

It's an interesting thing to see that despite someone not outwardly showing hate for another race, we still see racism expressed in other ways.

[Racism is the belief of seeing one's own race as superior to that of another race (s)]

Yes

No

[HighValue]

By "more to the table" you seem to just mean money. Money can't make up fro height, strength, ability t o protect a mate and family, intelligence (Many Asians put in more hours for school work because they have to in order to learn the same things competent White men do in 3/4 the time.) It is difficult to compete with light eyes, a deep voice, etc. too.

It is the same way for women. More and more White women aren't desired by White men due to their obesity, immorality, unattractiveness (tattoos, nose rings, etc.).

It isn't racism to want certain features in a potential mate, whether that is height, eye color, hair color, etc. Plus not all Asians are hard workers. MANY have been lazy in the past, especially in the 1990s when Bill Clinton was president and there was no limit to welfare, food stamps, and housing assistance. Plenty of them purposely had many kids in order to get larger free checks from the government back then that were mostly paid for with White people's taxes from working.

[Anonymous]

Asian men cheat a lot and there are a hell of a lot of Asian deadbeat dads. And they rarely date single moms.

[avery58]

If she makes it harder to get his attention because of his race then the solution is simple, let her fuck off and find someone who doesn't have an issue with his race or even shares the same race as him.

[avery58]

*to get her attention

[avery58]

Oh, and it wouldn't be racism. That's just their preference. Just don't go after people if you don't fit their preferences, find someone who likes all of you.

[Anonymous]

This post is racist.