Did I over react?

[No_Namer]

I went out with a girl on Oct.4th. We we supposed to go out last night Oct. 8th she cancelled at the last min. and said I can't make it out until next week. Then tonight on Facebook she posted a picture of her and her friend at the bar we were supposed to go to. I confronted very calm and said oh you're out with blank tonight? She said yeah we went to the movies and then the bar. I said oh whatever. I think the least she could of done was cancel with her friend to make up for canceling last night. Do you guys think this is messed up or no? We made plans in advance on date 1. But last night she cancelled last minute. After I said my response no reply back from her. So she had time to do that but not to hang with me. We are LGBT by the way.

[ohsheeT]

Well look at the whole picture. She was suppose to go out with you , but without another chick took a picture of them selves and sent it to you

So that tells me she's rubbing it in your face. I'm not out with you because I'm out right there that she's not that into you. You shouldn't just let it all go

So you can either get into drama which is not going to go anyplace except for a dead end street

Or you can.
Take it as it is. And just drop it if she wants to go out with you. She's gonna have to call you don't beg. Don't get p*****, don't even worry about it. She's not the only person in the world. But you can't create drama over something that she did

[BriamG22]

Hmm, I would say that if you've only been on one date so far then there shouldn't really be an obligation for her to cancel other plans as a gesture or even to let you know about her ongoings...

I understand the frustration, cancelling last minute will usually be seen as impolite and inconsiderate but I guess its contingent on whether there was a legitimate reason or an emergency.

If there were legitimate reasons, then its highly probable that she would have wanted to reschedule it to today but couldn't because of your schedule. Was there any suggestion of this on her part?

Although I can empathise, maybe it was a slight over reaction? But all you said was "Oh Whatever" right? Would that be considered abrasive?

[Staximus]

She should have invited you out tonight with her friend or not posted her dumb shit on social media, that was a dick move. I would not ask her to go out again. If she wants to make plans, ask her if she's actually going to show up this time. I think what you need to do is look for somebody who's looking for a serious relationship. Maybe somebody more old-fashioned or something (which is going to be hard to find in the gay and lesbian community).

[Danny_dan92]

She’s not interested in you

[Sebastian100]

If I was you, I would've blocked her