What should I do, what does this mean?

[Anonymous]

I been seeing this man for a month. he's been a sweetheart. But lately he's been this self distraction of what we have been building. His words. he says we shouldn't fall fast. Says I'm too much. But says he knows I been putting you through a lot. But just stick with it and it will be with it. Im not a door mat and I do love who he is as a person and the connection. The other night he got blacked out drunk. I guess he confessed his feelings to a long time friend of his who has a boyfriend. He had a shot with his ex and called me a so many times and got people's numbers and igs. I been just talking to only him and seeing just him to the point I deleted my dating profiles. He was going to come by after going to his guy friends house. To see what happened when he got drunk. But I took too long to greet him. He thought i fell asleep. Granted he did keep me up with calls and asking me to come get him. I didn't sleep. Due to him not being there when i got there. I Was like 5 mins late seeing that he stopped by my house. I called him after seeing he wasn't there. Broke my heart a little. He told me he genuinely thought i was asleep and he left. He was almost home some how.. I asked if he would come back but he said no. "Wow" we hung up saying love you. I called again because sounded like he wanted to tell me what he was going to go get. When I wasn't really listening because I got hurt by not being put fast enough. That he waisted his time coming out here. He told me I am being too much and asked if that's all I called back for. This time no love just I'm too much bye. Since then I did apologize to him. I haven't heard anything since.

[AvaRay]

He’s sending confusing signals, n that’s not your fault..

U show up, u care, u invest that’s human..

If he calls it too much, the problem isn’t u, it’s his limits..

Respect isn’t optional, It isn’t earned only when everything is convenient..

It’s shown when he values your time, your energy, n your presence even in imperfect moments..

U can love him as a person, but u don’t hv to tolerate inconsistency or games..

Your peace, your standards, n your self worth come first..

A man who can’t meet u where u stand, who punishes attention with judgment,
is not aligned with your level..

N I only walk with those who can match my fire.. 😊

[Asker]

I think he called it too much because I called right after us talking on the phone and I told him I was holding back tears. Because I was sad I didn't get to see him. All he was going to do was say hi.

[AvaRay]

Feeling sad isn’t the problem but expecting someone else to manage your emotions is..

Know your worth, own your feelings, n never let anyone make u apologize for being u..

[Anonymous]

It's time to go
If this is the beginning of the relationship, what is it going to be like in 6 months?

[Asker]

That's true and his birthday gift is finally coming and all this shit is happening... I know he's a mess with his own challenges he's facing and love scares him and everything. I honestly don't want to keep this birthday gift he asked me to get him. 😥 but in my apologie text he didn't even read it or anything and hasn't been online since. I usually call him.

[Asker]

Also do i just re-download the apps?

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't, but that depends on you

[Staximus]

I don't know why you're worried about some guy who acts like a drunk teenager

[Asker]

I think he went out drinking because his aunt just died.