What to do with someone who shows interest then doesn't?

[Mandapanda9016]

In specific a person who will like your stuff and comment on posts and when you show that same energy back they either don't respond or very vaguely say something?

[SueShe]

That is the problem with social media. People can hide behind anonymity and post whatever they want. They can create fake accounts and that is probably what is happening in your case.

That person does not really want to be involved in a relationship or get too close with someone on social media. I have always failed to understand why people place so much importance on this social media and not on real life. It is so much easier to fake interest on those platforms because you don't have to face the person in real life.

It seems to be a one-way street and you should not get so much involved in something that has no future. You will only hurt yourself by doing so.

[Mandapanda9016]

Thank you so much I appreciate that

[Anonymous]

Match energy. That's the best advice I can handle give for either gender. Match energy. It doesn't necessarily mean they're playing with you. But it doesn't mean they're NOT playing with you. But if you ALWAYS Match energy (except in the cases where you know them well enough to know they AREN'T playing with you). Then you never have to worry about them getting over on you.

It's always better to lose a potential relationship with someone who is unclear. Then to let someone, ANYONE get the better of you. There are 4 billion of the opposite gender on the planet. There will be another one, and they'll probably be a better communicator.👍

[Mandapanda9016]

Thank you it makes a lot of sense

[Opinion Owner]

No problem👍

[ChicoFromThe305]

Teenager stuff, they try to give off a nonchalant vibe even when they are interested, it's a pointless step in young love, to older adults this becomes more known as playing games, because it's pointless.

[Mandapanda9016]

You're right thank you 😊

[ChicoFromThe305]

💯💯

[Rahulsingh17]

Sometimes, people's preferences change, it's best to move on.

[zagor]

I don't think liking your social media posts is necessarily showing interest.

[Alex-Snow]

It sounds like he is kinda confused. How well do you know this guy. Is he ur age?

[Mandapanda9016]

Yes he's my age and we went out 2 times before but had some minor issues and stopped talking and then we started to talk again but he's doing what I mentioned, being distant but wanting my attention

[Alex-Snow]

You make have to make some of the first moves. Maybe ask him out for some dates and see how it goes.

[Californiagirl5]

They're just into games, never serious.

[In_Trance]

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