Dating

I feel like my chances of being a father are over. Online/offline dating isn't working for me?

My high functioning disability has put off women that I've ended up dating 20 in total if you wanted to know.

I wasn't sure if there are other ASD men on here with similar experience, I'm new to this site.

I do not know what to do to improve my chances if they're any. I've also had 75 conservations with ladies that have gone nowhere alongside the dates, mainly they gave up after one text.

My personality & looks don't seem to be enough , tho too hide or to not put too much light on my disability. They're the things that I worked on most in 9 years of trying to find a lover.

Most of the guys that I've encountered think I'm alright even if I'm a stranger to them both irl & online & wonder why I don't have much luck compared to them, when they interact with women.
Some of them were much worse off in certain aspects still they are able to achieve but bare in mind they weren't disabled males.

I thought making someone laugh having similarities between interests being a listener & trying to understand the person , showcasing signs of emotional intelligence, having moral compass, taking care in my looks having a job, were attractive elements that women want , but I don't know what more women would want from me because they're still not satisfied with what I offer as a man?

I'm very lost because I thought that's what a lot of women would want from a man.
Don't know if I should save up for surrogacy when I reach 30 & quit finding love altogether. Because being a father would mean a lot to me.
I feel like my chances of being a father are over. Online/offline dating isn't working for me?
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