Slow burn in a relationship?

[bluecollarkk]

I heard about the slow burn method in a relationship. For someone who is used to love bombers but wants to try out the slow burn method. How do you accomplish it and what are your methods?

[Summeroflove]

It’s all psychological torture and manipulation… Dark personalities cannot form genuine connections so they simply know how to fake them until they got you hooked but they can’t hide it forever.

They feed off the other persons misery and energy. Sucking you dry until there’s nothing left of you… Some people are more willfully evil then others. But with people who are good people they have a energy they don’t have. So sucking off empathy, sympathy, the energy you’re putting into saving them or changing them or rescuing them… Feels powerful for you for a while. But it’s all being enabled they just want a enabler someone who defends them and bails them out of trouble. Even when they’re in the wrong.

The best thing you can do dealing with a dark personality once someone shows their true colors… Don’t play a game you cannot win. Cut them off the best you can in areas where you may have to interact have boundaries and be respectful be civil… you don’t have to be overly nice. Take legal action if needed criminal and/or civil if needed. But trying to deal with these people is a waste of your energy.

When you see that these people are vampires. Whether you love them or hate them. You’re feeding them energy. They thrive off your emotions especially negative ones. So taking time for yourself to grieve is important. But it’s just…. Not dealing witn them. Not playing their stupid games and winning a stupid prize.

[EchoD]

I’ve actually never been much of a fast mover in relationships. I didn’t know there was a name but I think I’ve been doing the slow burn for a while now. I honestly take my time to say I love you. Just being in the moment and not rushing outcomes. Actually learning a lot and going on many dates if you really find that connection you can definitely ask to be each others boyfriend or girlfriend. Like I said I never rush to say I love you but compliments are always nice and taking up interests in there hobbies. If you find yourself fighting yourself communicating is key don’t be afraid to talk your person what you are thinking. Having a slow burn in a relationship isn’t to tease or test your partner it’s all just feelings and what works best for you.

[Anonymous]

Complete honesty. No push or pull. Emotional Loyalty , no instagram or social media pvt accounts

[Nikki1989]

Pass on that. I dont have the patience.

[Twalli]

I don't have sex for several months. I wait until we have a connection and foundation in our relationship that is not sex.

[Ariesman81]

Don't know. If it isn't nuclear I'm not interested.

[Anonymous]

Haven't heard about it. Have you used this app before?

[WonderingManII]

I think slow and steady wins the race.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I LOVE 38D bombers on a lass !!!

[beenherebefore]

Never heard of it.

[bluecollarkk]

Look up the slow burn method…