I have a crush that knows I like her what do I do🫣?

[SUBCONNECTION]

So I have a crush on a girl at my work and she knows I like her, I don't work beside her but I've talked to her like 4 times or so like saying hello how ya doin etc. Being she knows I like her I'm not sure how to move forward by asking for her number or something... or to find out if she likes me too, but I'm quite shy and have never talked to a girl I liked before. She acts kinda normal and she came up to me once but se gave me something that was for my work. Any advice will help🫣

[SueShe]

You never ever start a romance with a coworker. That has too many implications and usually ends not so well. There will always be the one or the other coworker that will be jealous or even, if that coworker is in a higher position, cause conflicts because of potential favoritism. That kind of relationship is poison in a work environment.

A crush is usually a one-sided affair and is seldom reciprocated.

Now, you have a crush on her just after talking 4 times with her? What do you know about her? Is she in a relationship? If yes, you don't want to be the one that breaks up that relationship.

Talking with a person 4 single times for a few minutes hardly qualifies to have a crush but is more infatuation.

Go ahead and ask for her number but be cautious and prepared for a rejection or even for other coworkers mobbing you afterwards.

[SUBCONNECTION]

The place I work at doesn't mind about co workers getting together, but the way it is won't be weird if it doesn't work out. It just weird for me because somehow word got around that she knows lol

[SUBCONNECTION]

Also I know she's single and it my age😁

[RxR0954]

I’d say it’s the most stupid decision ever to ask a co worker out or date them, you don’t know if she likes you back, and if she didn’t and finds it predatory or uncomfortable you might end up in the HR office for unprofessional behaviors. And if she did liked you back and started dating you, you both might end up in the HR office too. Either way it’s not a good idea to hit on your coworker

[Staximus]

You're not in elementary school, why don't you try to get to know her before making a fool of yourself

[SUBCONNECTION]

From our interactions so far she seems kind and polite but then that awkward silence kicks in and tbh even though she knows I like her is it weird to try the friend stage?

[Staximus]

How is a girl going to know if she likes you if she doesn't even know you, genius?

[SUBCONNECTION]

But isn't that where dating comes in? Or should we be friends first...

[SUBCONNECTION]

I think ur right I'll just try to talk to her a bit more until it seems more natural

[Nikki1989]

Judging by the way you are talking here, you are too immature to be in a serious relationship at this stage.

[Anonymous]

Looks like u don’t have serious intentions.

[SUBCONNECTION]

I am serious but just not experienced

[eninytxis]

Ask her out.

[In_Trance]

Are you 12?