My friend public dates “normal”/popular women, while “privately” seeing unconventional/quirky women?

[Anonymous]

Is this really a thing? The women that he “privately” sees aren’t even ugly or worse looking than the ones he publicly dates.

Is he ashamed of these women?

[Anonymous]

Yeah some men only date women they think will impress other men. There are men online who say that of course they only date women other people think are attractive, because otherwise that would be embarassing and affect how people viewed them. It was even a discussion on tiktok recently. It’s ridiculous but says a lot. Both about those people specifically, about the state of dating and how people see other people in general. It’s just a status thing for some. Yeah imma get me this hot girl that I don’t even like because it will impress my homeboys and any guy seeing me walk down the street with her, while I reject or hide the girl I actually want. It’s just so sick and sad.

[Asker]

He is currently dating this beautiful woman who is quite successful and well-connected. She is on the verge of ending things with him because she is starting to feel used for he status and connections.

Meanwhile, he is obsessed with another woman who left him almost two years ago because he wouldn’t be seen in public with her and wouldn’t commit to her. She has him blocked everywhere but he still calls her No Caller ID and tries to keep tabs on her. The thing is, she wasn’t even that weird. She was just a bit awkward and shy. He also talks crap about her to his new romantic prospects, which is weird.

[Anonymous]

"What" is with "all" the "quotes?" Do you "not" know "how" to "write?"

[DryGermanGuy]

So he needs multiple dates? What a stud! 😮

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a man child