Would you marry someone who lied about their age?

[Anonymous]

Imagine dating someone for a couple of months then you finally look them up and you find out they're actually 20 years older

[ohsheeT]

If you love each other, you would really hope that the person would have told you before you even got married. That's just totally rude to marry somebody

In the very first thing you're doing is lying to them that marriage will not last because from the first lie is when everything goes downhill

And that's worse than alive , because you're not only lying about the age the first time , but then when you're getting married , you're lying about it again , and then your whole relationship becomes a big lie. No that's rude that's just uncalled for

[uzumymw]

If I don't see the difference between the age they say they are and actually being 20 whole years older that's on me

Would not marry them tho but it's very easy to spot 20 years of age difference

[Asker]

some people look younger than they actually are

[uzumymw]

Twenty years tho?
I get ya haha some do look much younger but I always see if it's more than five years older or younger than they say they are
Had women lie about their age to me before

[Asker]

I'm 30. I get told I look 20. Looks don't tell age. I know a 50 yr old who looks 33.

[slatyb]

Twenty years? No, I wouldn't. Total deal breaker. My wife took five years off her online profile, but she told me immediately. I wouldn't have known, she could have taken ten off.

[Anonymous]

That is a significant bombshell to drop after a few months of dating. While age itself is often just a number, a 20-year discrepancy moves past a white lie and into the territory of a fundamental breach of trust. NEVER.

[Anonymous]

My wife was 15 when we started dating. She led me to believe she was 18. We were married when she turned 16.

[Asker]

i see we have a pedophile here

[Opinion Owner]

What makes me that?

[zagor]

How could you date them for a couple months and not notice their age? 20 years is usually visible; I could see 2 or maybe 5 years, but 20?

[Asker]

some people look younger than they actually are

[Anonymous]

No. How don't you notice a 20 year difference?

[Asker]

some people look younger than they actually are

[Opinion Owner]

Not 20 years and after months of dating. There weren't any other clues you picked up in conversation or whatever?

[Asker]

no. I thought he looked 47. but age has very little to do with looks. A lot of people look older or younger than their age. I look younger than my age.

[Opinion Owner]

Gross

[jahaims]

I wouldn't marry someone who lies to me period about anything

[Anonymous]

No. That would make her 70ish. She could bake me some cookies if she like though.😆

[queenofcardio]

Never.. What an odd thing to lie about.

[Abbycado]

Absolutely not.

[MonopolyGuy]

Wooow 20 years? Never ever

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[In_Trance]

never