He didn’t reach out after our argument for 6 days—should I text him first?

[Anonymous]

i feel overwhelmed by his defensive behavior and i told him not to text me but he said i should reach out when comfortable but the fact was tgat he didn’t put my feelings into account at all. he said something on behalf of her behavior but then justified it right away. it gad been six day and he didn’t even reach out to say hi.

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3 mo

he apologized on behalf of his sister but then justified her behavior.

[Anonymous]

Are you the woman who’s all upset with this guys little sister? He’s never picking you over her so either accept it or move on. You’re so weird for trying to be manipulative and twist his arm. Telling him not to text you when you just want him to chase and choose you. He’s not interested in your games lady.

[Zionne]

that's reasonable because you said it. you go text him

[Summeroflove]

Well…… if you’re ready to reach our seems like you told him not to. This type of behavior is so immature….. I understand needing time to calm down but I mean…… if someone told me not to text. Whatever dude

[dudeinohio]

Well. You told him not to text you, so he is respecting your wishes.

Go ahead and get in touch with him and see what happens.

[CriminallyInsane]

You told him not to and you're upset he listened?