How good are you at securing that second date?

[DishLady]

A lot of people are able to get a first date, but based on my recent experience with a perfectly awful fellow I wondered now good folks are at getting a second date.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have always been an open book and disclosed whatever was asked on a first date, and a few women discovered things that were dealbreakers for them, but most women agreed to a second date with me.

[worldscolide]

I was always good at it if i wanted one. The thing is, i almost never wanted one. There are 7 women in my entire life, my wife included, that made it to the second date. i have been on more than 100 first dates.. A few items that would make me outright reject, If she is on her phone constantly, If she is overly political, If she is dishonest, If she picks the most expensive things on the menu, If she's disrespectful, If she wears too much makeup, (too much meaning it looks like a mask i can peel off).. and so on. There are only 7 women from when i was 16 to when i was 29 and met my wife that actually got past the first date.

[DishLady]

Same.

[Masie]

Never dated so horrible. I don't think I would be bad at securing a second date with someone I liked.

I am just not an easy person. I will admit that. The first guy is going to have to impress big time. I am sure he will.

[slatyb]

I dated online for a few years, had a long-term relationship, then met my wife. While dating, I was asked for more second dates than I wanted. I was seldom single.

[_Jenny_]

@DishLady

I never had a problem getting a second date

[Iron_Man]

I don’t really care anymore. They’re either in my camp or not. I’m not playing those kind of games anymore whether there be a second date or a third date too many complications nowadays everybody’s selfish

[Iron_Man]

Most women don’t care that much about how good you look anymore they just want to find out exactly what you can do for them and give them the queen lifestyle. I’ve been there and done that already

[DishLady]

I wasn't talking about a game... just whether the first date is successful enough to get you the second and third dates.

[DishLady]

Would you WANT a girl to like you just because of your looks? As someone who has had people approach only based on looks I can tell you it's not as flattering as you might think. I'd love for a guy to chat with me bc he finds me cool and interesting, for example.

[DishLady]

Would you WANT a girl to like you just because of your looks? As someone who has had people approach only based on looks I can tell you it's not as flattering as you might think. I'd love for a guy to chat with me bc he finds me cool and interesting, for example.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t care anymore. I feel like every date is like a job interview and their analyzing me to see what I can do for him and I don’t like blind dates that much.

[DishLady]

Hmm. Yes a bad date CAN feel that way, especially when there's no chemistry.

[Iron_Man]

I like all of it not just one.

[DishLady]

Fair enough.

[Iron_Man]

Thanks and remember, don’t feed the trolls lol 😄

[DishLady]

Lol. Yeah... I fell into it on another question. ;)

[Iron_Man]

I made a spelling mistake. I meant what I can do for them not him. I’m talking about the women. Lol

[DishLady]

<3 No worries.

[Iron_Man]

Thank you you’re really communicating very well with me tonight ❤️

[exitseven]

looking back I mostly was able to do it.

[bowenw]

It usually happens.

[dudeinohio]

I've had very good luck