Why do I always have dreams about finding love but I always wake up?

[MUSICTOKU099125]

I had a dream where i was a beach party or some kind of party. I was taller than my real self. I was healthier. etc. met a cute girl. We got to know each other. The girl back hugged me and smiled at me. And admitted she liked me and I put my arm around her. And we planned a date for the day.

Then i woke up!! WHY?

[There_Is_Rehab]

Because in real life you actually run away from girls. Your ideas about meeting girls are overpowered by your fears.

How do i know? Jungian psychology. And it isn't complicated. But our own shadow makes it seem complicated as a defense mechanism. Which is why my teacher who said she taught university psychology for 30 years would talk about anything except Carl Jung, she said she first needs to study more of him.

So see, it has nothing to do with how much you study and how smart you are. It is your subconscious mind vomiting out adrenaline as soon as you get close to disarming your survival instincts: deliberate avoidance. It is your ego's way of ensuring it will continue to live, because up till now this mechanism worked.

Yes you avoid girls deliberately. You were taught that doing so helps you survive. More specifically, you were taught that you being a feminine weakling is a problem, you were mocked for being "like a girl" and you repress your own ability to feel emotions internally without outer expression so much you also repress it outside of yourself, in girls.

The solution is not to cling to anyone but to face your shadow. Acknowledge that you have been running away from them and feel as sad about it as you need. That is how to signal to your body "a change occurred".

[MUSICTOKU099125]

Wtf are you talking about

[MUSICTOKU099125]

How do i run away from girls? Wtf does that mean?

[Agape93]

Because even you're dreams find you too repulsive to be around.

[MUSICTOKU099125]

FUCK YOU NARCISSISTIC ASSHOLE! YOU ARE AN ASSHOLE!!