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I had a dream where i was a beach party or some kind of party. I was taller than my real self. I was healthier. etc. met a cute girl. We got to know each other. The girl back hugged me and smiled at me. And admitted she liked me and I put my arm around her. And we planned a date for the day.
Then i woke up!! WHY?
Then i woke up!! WHY?
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Because in real life you actually run away from girls. Your ideas about meeting girls are overpowered by your fears.
How do i know? Jungian psychology. And it isn't complicated. But our own shadow makes it seem complicated as a defense mechanism. Which is why my teacher who said she taught university psychology for 30 years would talk about anything except Carl Jung, she said she first needs to study more of him.
So see, it has nothing to do with how much you study and how smart you are. It is your subconscious mind vomiting out adrenaline as soon as you get close to disarming your survival instincts: deliberate avoidance. It is your ego's way of ensuring it will continue to live, because up till now this mechanism worked.
Yes you avoid girls deliberately. You were taught that doing so helps you survive. More specifically, you were taught that you being a feminine weakling is a problem, you were mocked for being "like a girl" and you repress your own ability to feel emotions internally without outer expression so much you also repress it outside of yourself, in girls.
The solution is not to cling to anyone but to face your shadow. Acknowledge that you have been running away from them and feel as sad about it as you need. That is how to signal to your body "a change occurred".
Wtf are you talking about
How do i run away from girls? Wtf does that mean?
Because even you're dreams find you too repulsive to be around.
FUCK YOU NARCISSISTIC ASSHOLE! YOU ARE AN ASSHOLE!!
Your point with that outburst is what, exactly?
TO CALL YOU OUT! WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU! JUST GTFO OUT OF MY PROFILE! IF YOU can't BE A REAL HUMAN BEING WITH FEELINGS THEN YOU ARE NOT WORTH MY TIME
You've been doing that since I first talked to you in general. And this is a public forum. Don't want a reply? Block me.
YOU ARE SUCH AN ASSHOLE! THIS IS WHY I HATE PEOPLE LIKE YOU! YOU DONT KNOW WHEN TO STOP!! STOP USING IT AS A PUBLIC FORUM WHEN LITERALLY YOU CAN CHOOSE YOU RESPOND TO!!
I'm just replying now to piss you off, so thanks for making me smile, I needed that.
YOU ARE IMMATURE ASF! GET SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP! WHY DO PEOPLE LIKE YOU EXIST?
We exist because two people fucked, had a kid they proceeded to mistreat and abuse. Got anymore questions?
YEA 2 mentally ill people!! BECAUSE YOU ARE CLEARLY BRAINDAMAGED. DONT BLAME YOUR PARENTS FOR EVERYTHING! YOU CHOOSE HOW YOU TURN OUT!
JUST BECAUSE YOUR PARENTS MISTREATED YOU AND ABUSED doesn't MEAN YOU CAN BE A POS
Actually I can because what's wrong with me is genetic, their behavior is what made it worse.
YOU ARE A POS AND DONT PLAN ON CHANGING! THATS WHY MEDS AND THERAPY DONT FUCKING WORK!! YOU DONT WANT TO CHANGE!!
Honey it wouldn't work even if I did. That's not how it works.