Is this really attractive?

[Anonymous]

If a guy comes from old money and is ambitious and educated. Does that really appeal to women?

Yes it does

No it doesn’t that much

[SueShe]

Education is attractive. Old money is not and neither is ambition. At least not to me.

Being from old money simply means he had a golden childhood, did not have to fight to obtain anything, had it easy and can probably not appreciate simple things.

Bein ambitious means that the person is ready to walk over others in order to achieve his goals and that is certainly not attractive to me. I abhor people that will step onto others to reach their goals. That is nothing else but being selfish and egoistic.

Education can be attractive if it is put to good use.

[sawno]

You always have such a bitter view on stuff, ambition can just means he has dreams he wants to achieve or is likely to strive to be the best in his field for example. Doesn't have to be hostile at all.

[SueShe]

@sawno Why do people always have to want to bes the best at something? Is it not enough to be in the middle? What does it bring to be the first?

That is also why, I totally fail to understand why people compete against each other in sports. Is it bad to come in 26th. position in a competion?

[sawno]

I meant it as the best you can be. Its fun to get good at something and its fun if through that effort you reach the top for something. Doesn't mean we have to go all vicious for it.

[SueShe]

@sawno Pierre de Coubertin, the founder of modern Olympic games said "In these Olympiads, the important thing is not winning, but taking part".

[sawno]

And yet you think Olympic athletes aren't ambitious? You can't reach the Olympics without ambition. If you are fine doing the same entry level over and over instead of pushing yourself to do better you'd never reach that by a long long long distance.

Being ambitious isn't about winning, its about achievement. About being the best version of yourself you can be.

If I combine it with some of your other opinions it really sounds like your dream partner is the kinda guy who just slacks at home on the couch watching TV as long as he has no sex drive or at most works a basic job you don't need any skills for.

[SueShe]

@sawno Perhaps you have misread all my other opinions. I have no desire or intentions to have a partner. I am not interested in fornicating and/or to be in a relationship.

[sawno]

Like I said the last version of this question the background doesn't make the man, the part that is attractive here are his achievements. Him being educated and ambitious are both attractive traits.

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe to some... yes. But I would think they would also prefer one who has a good personality and a great sense of humor.

[413kim]

Just need to watch the women who like the money part. lol