What dating advice would you give to men that don't have the typical attractive qualities?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Well first i would tell them, Don't compromise from what you want. It's better to be single for the RIGHT reasons then with someone who does not love and respect you. And if you consider yourself, "less than" you will have tendency to do that. Secondly i would say take stock of the people around you that love and care about you. That isn't a coincidence! It's because you have worth. You're a good person you are a worthwhile person that a woman would be LUCKY to have. Thirdly do the best with what you got. There are women that will never give you a chance. But much of those women would never give you regardless of what you look like, sound like, your income or social status or your confidence level. When you realize how many terrible people there are out there in the world you realize your "lack of attractive qualities" is debateable. Oh sure there are primary things women look for, but not every woman, and to varying degrees. Just work to your strength. But i'll keep stressing, "remember your worth". You're as deserving of love and respect as the next person. Never let anyone else try to convince you different. Put those people in your rearview mirror.

[HighValue]

Lift weights. Even if you are overweight, if you have obviously strong arms and shoulders it will increase attraction. If you are short, find a mate in a country with lots of short people. Dress in regular plain clothes without unusual designs or graphics. Have a normal haircut, not anythine weird or dyed. I'm not sure what your exact struggles are so I can't give more than general advice.

[Nikki1989]

What you need is personality, kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty and integrity, good communication skills, and shared interests and values. It is mostly only insecure, immature, inexperienced men that live under the delusion that having good looks and money is so important. It really isn't.

[LazerBean]

Find a happy old guy who has been married 40+ years and get advice from him.

[Anonymous]

Practice good hygiene, get a good shave and haircut, take care of your health, dress reasonably well, don't be a jerk or slob, and stop worrying. Just look around. There are lots of unattractive men in long-term relationships with amazing women.

[NathanDavis]

which are the ones that you consider the "typical attractive qualities"'?

[Iron_Man]

Have a great personality have some money in the bank so you can spoil the girl and take her traveling and buy her nice gifts. They always love that

[Alex-Snow]

Good hygiene, a good smile, and a positive attitude

[Anonymous]

Get to know girls as friends. One of them is going to fall for you.

[jennifer_bloom]

Hug and be sweet.

[Mariogirl09]

Be funny. Not offensive

[Chayce]

Get typical attractive qualities

[Chayce]

Let me re frame this. Get typical attractive qualities to be the unsafe option in the relationship. Therefore you can sleep with the woman without having to put up any money besides paying for the hotel room & the bottles. Let some other dweeb be the guy who spends money on her who gets nothing in return because he led only with his wallet. Be toxic basically & you’ll have women in love. Who wants genuine connection anyway