Here are the possibilities as I see them.
A: He doesn't prioritize you, and therefor you're not important to him. He's holding out for whatever reason. A better offer. Better plans. Who knows, who cares?
B: He doesn't prioritize texts, which is a very strong possibility, and any real man should naturally feel this way.
C: He doesn't check his phone that often. He didn't see the texts until then.
D: He is waiting at last second, and is more interested in a booty call
E: Like WeaponZero said. He's not checking until he charges his phone.
Who knows what his reasons are. But if you don't get your quick response, then there are other options you can try. For example...
I think that if you really want to get a hold of him, pick up a goddamned phone and fucking TALK to him. You know what talking is? It's a thing people do with their mouths, and up until about five to ten years ago, that was people's primary means of communication. Either by phone or in person. This texting thing that's been sweeping people (especially girls) is NOT something that should replace talk, and there are fucking lot of good reasons for this.
Seriously if it's so important to you, try actually calling him up on the fucking phone, and talking to him, guess what, if he answers the phone, your answer will be instantaneous.
Call him. Because frankly? Fuck texts.
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Because it's a text. Texting is not meant to be a replacement for actual phone conversations. By the way, guys tend to be very bad about texting in general compared to girls because guys more often than not prefer actual phone conversations.
If your message is urgent or you want a reply in the immediate future, pick up a phone and actually call. Texting is not meant to be a primary means of communication.
If you're sure he's not working/busy during the day, then he could very well be waiting to see if any other plans come up before he answers you. If he doesn't have plans, he could decide he wants to hang out and texts you or he just texts you because it's at night, he's horny, and he's hoping you're into that
he waits throughout the day to see if he will make other plans, when he doesn't your his back up. he's just not that in to you and/or wanting anything with commitment. don't make someone a priority when they only make you an option. :D
He's not that into you. Basically if a guy's not making you high priority and not replying all the time, he's just not that into you. I know it's hard to accept and maybe you can do something to make him see how great you are..but yah
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He's waiting to see if a better offer comes along. You are his last resort.
I'd forget him & find someone who treats you better.Either he
doesn't see you as a big prioirty
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is trying not to come off as needy/wants you to think about him more by replying less
what I'd do next time is just take longer than usual to reply back to his txt
OR he's just a bad texterIF you need an urgent answer, make a phone call. It's not hard.
Might not always be around his phone so whoever is a contact on it isn't a high priority.
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