I don't find anyone attractive anymore. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

I think I've been through a lot of the ups and downs of relationships that...I don't find anyone attractive anymore.

I don't get excited to meet a certain guy, or any guy...

Has there anyone who has felt this? Does this go away eventually? I'm not excited about love anymore.

[jesshkah]

I think it's normal that it happens at some point in life.. you just get tired of the drama and the stupid things and it just seems like relationships aren't worth it anymore. They're just not interesting and it's like you're kinda stuck in a rut where you think that everythings going to turn out the same and its not worth trying anymore. I think it does go away eventually, it takes time and meeting the right person. These are the times when you focus on yourself and find things that make you happy. Just make sure you don't fall into the mindset where you're NEVER interested in anyone again, you can control all this. It might be what you're feeling now, but always keep an open mind to possibilities.

[kambo_trick3y]

Don't treat it like it's some kind of disease, you are what you are. Don't lower your standards and don't take away something that you learned. In fact, find someone out there who understands what you are going through and can relate to it.

In this crazy and desensitized world we live in, trust me, there is someone just as desensitized and crazy as you are.

[mikailSF]

sounds like it is time for you to really spend time with yourself and who you are. It's not a bad thing at all, just a phase in your life. Love comes when you least expect it. Just make sure you are in the right place to receive it!

[Anonymous]

There's about 24 different medical conditions which can result in a person feeling like this. Some are serious, some are not. So first thing first, see a doctor and get yourself checked out.

[toleranger]

Welcome to the club. Try not to look for attractiveness for a while and only care about friendships maybe? Life is full of surprises after all.

[Anonymous]

I feel this way too except I'm a lesbian.