Congratulations! Your relationship has progressed out of the honeymoon stage and into the eye-opener stage. This is where your relationship takes more work than it used to to keep the spark alive, you find out those small quirks about your partner you didn't know existed, and you decide if you can handle them.
As to your wanting more, may I remind you that you've been together for a little over a year? Some people like to take it slow in relationships. I've been in a relationship for four years and we didn't kiss for the first 10 months. Just slowly build up the affection. You cannot make her love you, only she can do that, but you CAN increase the intimacy of your relationship -- hopefully at a comfortable pace for her -- and then, maybe she'll be more prone to tell/show you she loves you?
Just some ideas.
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A year in a relationship is still pretty fresh.
I've been in a 6 year relationship and only now are things starting to get that way.
You've tried talking to her but all of your words still seem to have little to no effect.
If she's going to be the type that does not listen then you really need to re-think your
relationship. You want someone who cares about the way you feel. Relationships aren't for
selfish people.
Look dude, the first issue is 'you're asking'.
What you do is, arrange something you enjoy doing, like say you want to go camping, and maybe she hasn't gone camping in a while, you say "hey I'm going camping with some friends, I'd like you to come" or "you can come if you want". The more you ask, the less annoying it'll be. If she doesn't want to or can't, then let it be, and go hang with friends and have some guy time.
From the sounds of it, it sounds more like lust has dissipated like a morning fog. What you felt wasn't love, that is for certain.
I'm going through the exact same thing. Not to hijack you question but is she spending more time with her friends than you? Is she stressed about something like exams? family?
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