The last time she talked was 5:35 am yesterday morning, she said, "I love you boo." Since then, I haven't heard from her since and I'm getting frustrated with her. I'm so angry with her the next time she calls me I just want to tell her, "We're done, don't call me or text me anymore you neglectful bitch!" I'm just that mad at her. Part me wants to let her explain, but another part wants me to make her suffer and dump her without letting her explain. She also says her, "phone is dead due to not having a charger, her minute phone has no minutes, and her laptop doesn't work properly" she's full of sh*t! I'm thinking about giving up on her completely this time and cut off communication with her permanently because this is the second time she's done this (she claims she didn't have WiFi). What do I do because I'm so pissed off right now!
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Yes, those are definitely excuses. If any, one of them is true. It's very unlikely that all of those is honestly the truth. I hate guys who are like this too, but this does NOT mean she doesn't not care about you or not love you anymore.
Give her another 24 hours (if you keep texting her to ask her what's going on, it will only make her want to ignore you even more because she thinks you're being controlling or clingy and girls hate to be controlled by men so definitely wait 24 hours - it will work!) but if she still hasn't contacted you in any way, don't break up with her - that's the worst mistake you can make because after that, she will never want to talk to you again.
Instead, say something like "care to explain why you're ignoring me? or do you not want to be in a relationship with me? because I'm not wasting my time on someone who doesn't wanna talk to me or be with me" that SHOULD get her attention.
Oh and you definitely need to be cautious about her because it's very very bad (this has happened to me with a lot of guys and I found out he was cheating) that she is only contacting you at 5 am..
I hope I helped! Good luck..1