Polls: Dating

- went to guys house first time meeting
- he let me sit in the comfy chair and he laid on the floor
- we watched 1.5 movies
- bought us beer and kept getting me new ones when I was empty
- hugged me when I came and left
- told me to text when i got home

basically he made NO moves, and his texting style is kind of dry so I can't judge based on that. I'm not used to a guy not making moves when I first meet him.

In a relationship, there are times when the two partners can not agree. For example, perhaps you are buying a new couch for the living room... one wants a black couch, the other prefers a white couch. Or you are going on a major vacation... one person wants to cruise, another wants to road trip.

In these cases, where there is no easy way to compromise... where a final say is needed... Who should have that final say. Generally speaking, should it be the guy or the girl... if you could ONLY pick one answer, either the guy or the girl, which would it be?

I know, I know, a hot person that can cook is the perfect combination, but what if you had to only pick between these 2 options?


PS: I said chubby and not obese! They would cook very yummy food everyday !

by the way I'm not trying to stereotype, I know that body weight and cooking skills are unrelated, I just wanted to ask this random question!


I think I might marry a chubby guy who cooks well!

by the way I guess we all have a different definition of chubby, but this is what I mean by saying chubby:

There's this guy I've been talking to for awhile now. We met online in January 2016 and ever since we've been talking on the phone and FaceTime. We didn't meet this whole time because he was in Iraq for work. Despite us not having met in person yet, we agreed on not seeing other people and potentially have things get more serious as our relationship develops in person.

Well, I ended up finding out he's had sex with a few women since we made this agreement. I told him all I wanted was honesty so if he wanted to see other people he could but just to let me know. He said it was as just a one night stand with these women & he's not interested in them more than that. But now, I'm torn between if I should or shouldn't give him a second chance.

He's become like my best friend. We talk to each other everyday for hours if we can. We were supposed to meet this month. Here's a message he sent.. does it seem sincere

There are many Indians who are attractive. But honestly, I feel most people prefer other races over being with someone who is Indian.

These pictures might be a bit inaccurate to use considering how they are actresses, obviously very good looking.

It's been about a month and I really want to fix it. Is it fixable, and would you still consider someone that ghosted you?

How long should you wait before you change your relationship on Facebook, where the entire public can see?

I've always been very open and honest in general. So much so that it's almost as if I shock people for being real instead of just telling people what they want to hear. I notice that they're are so many people afraid to speak their mind or say how they really feel. I don't understand that, I don't understand the point of holding back. If you're happy, embrace it. If you're sad, say it. If they upset you, let them know. If you're curious, just ask. Life is too short not to speak your mind.

I recently read an article about how to get out of the friendzone as a woman.

One point stated that I should make myself "desirable" and be chased by every guy, basically showing the guy that I could be snapped up any minute.
All in all, have a lot of options.

Is that a turn on or turn off?

Would you be motivated pursuing a woman like this?

Which would you rather date, and why? I personally find butterbodies more attractive than butterfaces. All it takes is hard work (or a fat wallet) to get that dream body, but that face is hard to carve and will show up in your offspring's faces.