myTakes: Dating

When we were young children each and every experience was new to us and crucial in our development. If not for the information we learned early on from our loved ones, peers and teachers, we'd be at an extreme...

It frustrates me sometimes when I hear both guys and girls talk about themselves as if they are nobodies in the dating world because they haven't been successful in the dating pool. It's frustrating, it is, but on the...

Earrings Whether it be a long one like above or a diamond I find it really attractive. Tattoos On ~particular~ guys, tattoos are gorgeous and I love it. Nice Hair Guys, if you think your hair isn't important, please...

So you're a 20 something, supermodel looking, broke as hell college student looking around at her one room studio apartment which you're about to get kicked out of due to failure to pay your rent and you've decided that...

San Francisco resident Sebastian Stadil is purported to be 'the' most unlucky man on the dating app site, Tinder. Stadil, a software engineer, decided that rather than swipe right himself on potential dates, he would...

This is what I'd call a 'follow up' from my previous mytake, Man As Initiator which, not surprisingly, got mixed reactions :D . Not only that, I had a certain GaGer create a rebuttal [replica with a few adjustments] to...

I used to laugh when my friends said "oh girls love the guys that are assholes to them"... I watched them chase the guys that weren't worth it. I watched them cry over boys that weren't men... And I didn't get it? I mean,...

For all of the ignorant males on this post who asked me what I do like. 1) Happiness A guy who's very chill and just likes having a good time with his friends, is awesome. I can't stand guys who try to put on a moody...

Inspired by this post about 10 weird things that turn the poster on. 1) Awkwardness I know some people find a guys awkwardness cute, but it can get pretty uncomfortable and mutual comfort is just attractive to me. 2)...

Did you go to Harvard? Did you go pro after high school? Are you a former pageant queen who speaks 3 languages? Are you an awesome dancer? No one cares, that is, if your profile pictures are lacking or look bad. No one is...

I've dated a lot of men in my 21 years of life. Truth be told, most of them didn't mean anything. I don't even remember the names of all the men I've slept with, and they've probably forgotten mine, as well. Yet every...

I'm 18 years old and single, and have been for 18 years. Whether it be my choice, someone else's or the universe. Overtime, I've begun to wonder why this is. Is it me? Was it them? What could I have done? What can I do?...

1. They make you feel safe They can wrap their muscles around you and you can snuggle into their chest. 2. They have big arms and abs This one doesn't need to be explained. We all love when a guy has arm muscles and...

The most attractive thing about you should have less to do with your face or body and more to do with your heart and how you treat people. I am pretty sure we all can agree with the above quote. But in all truth, how...

WGTOW? Interesting!!! I don’t see this movement gaining too much steam. Most women are conditioned to believe men are there to serve them, and therefore, they “need” men for a whole host of crutch-type securities. It’s...

There are different sorts of men that appeal to me. One of the types, I will focus on are those that appear nerdy. Don't worry, I haven't gone crazy (just yet), I am in no way speaking about the Steve Urcle (Family...

1. They make you feel safe They can wrap their big arms around you and you can snuggle into their chest. There's no better feeling. 2. They have big hands and feet This one doesn't need to be explained. We all love when...

I think it's ridiculous when people get offended and hostile about not fitting someone's preferences so this is why I wrote this. 1. A relationship can't last without mutual attraction. it's going to be a waste of time...

Yes, I'm a traditional girl. No, I'm not stuck in the 50's. I believe in gender roles and their benefits, but not necessarily that one must confine themselves to the way society expects an individual to perform. Society...

At one point or another we all get tired of doing the same old thing during dates. Dinner and a movie or going out for coffee can be boring after a while. Here are 6 date ideas to help provide some inspiration! 1) Visit a...