Questions: Dating

Like generally. Are you hateful/resentful/bitter towards men?

Where and how could that come from?
Do men deserve to be punished?

Too many people know my family and myself.

I don’t trust women. If they don’t get what they want from me they can say I raped/abused her and tarnish my whole family’s reputation and take from me.
It’s sad that many women now are hateful towards men and believe we’re bad.

I’m very fearful when it comes to dating. I really want kids and a wife but I don’t want to destroy my entire life and my family’s legacy!!! We’ve worked too hard for this. From the bottom.

How do I trust any of these women? Either way, we’ve hidden all our wealth in trusts so at least the money is safe thank god.

Women (not all) typically say they want a nice guy, until they get one. Women (not all) will say they want a nice guy that's emotionally mature, ambitious, caring, makes them feel safe, etc. Some women may even find a guy that checks a lot of boxes on their laundry list of "requirements" a man should have to even get 2 minutes of their time, then turn around a cheat. Again, not all women do it, but just based on social media stories, it appears to be an alarming majority. Ladies be honest, what do you value most in men?

A little context. I’m (22M) and I’ve been currently talking to this girl for about a month and I’m conflicted if I should tell her I’m on deferred probation soon or about 3-6 months in. Make a long story, I used to do psychedelics and it ended with me being on probation 7 years but I can get off in 3 1/2 years if I don’t violate it and meet all my requirements. This happened like a year ago and ever since then I don’t do ANY drugs or are around anyone/anything that’ll lead me to violate my probation. It was a big mistake. I’ve been slowly completing my probation requires and have 5 days left of labor detail and still have to start on my community service, which I plan on doing about 2-4 hrs a week. I have my own place, car, job, and am currently building a business which I plan on launching by the end of this year. I have a mentor and business advisor and work on my business nearly everyday and I am very passionate about it and I believe she can tell too or at least is really realizing it (I already told her I’m passionate about my business and just business in general). I take very good care of myself, no kids, masculine, and intelligent. But at the end of the day I feel like once she hears I’m on probation it’s gonna automatically be a no go. Any advice or suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

"I'll pick you up at 7." She's not ready to go at 7.

"I'll meet you at 7." He shows up at 7:20

I somehow feel it's like a cultural or engrained thing where, especially if the women in prime breeding age (20s-30s) are beautiful and shorter/more petite in those 'smaller countries' compared to the big country England, that English men would be seen as more desirable to the women of those smaller countries or the United Kingdom. Same goes for the potentially the English men viewing those women of the smaller countries as more submissive potentially or wife material/relationship material lol, all societal and cultural and political lol. Sure is a unique one that United Kingdom, basically they all look up to England. Lol. It's like a dom-sub relationship if you think of it playfully as I.