Your parents sound like they do not want you to grow up, or venture out of the nest sorta speak. I have parents much alike to yours.
Unfortunately there's no way you can rely on them for those things. If you want to learn to drive, you're probably better to ask a cousin, aunt, uncle or a friend (even friends parents) to help teach you because your parents will probably end up coming up with some excuse as to why they don't want to. "I don't have time", "maybe another day we will go out", etc.
As for the job, if you want to work (this could benefit you as well, as it'll help you save for driving lessons / courses to further help you more). Just start applying to places of your interest. Being 16 and not having a job isn't the worst thing in the world, but making your own money and being independant is such a grand experience. It'll teach you financial control, how to manage your own money and allow you to be proud of accomplishing something.
If you're very concerned about your parents and what they will do / say, sit them down and have a serious talk with them. Let them know it's your life and your choices to make. Show them you are able to take a stand and address these issues you have with them, and be straight out.
My parents never helped me with any of those things either, but you get a better sense of yourself getting jobs on your own and not having to rely on them for everything anymore.
If they have a problem with it, try offering just getting a seasonal / summer job. This way you'll be out of school, have time to work and focus on making your money while the season is still around. Then when the fall hits and school returns you can leave and pickup something part time (like evening jobs)
I hope you're able to figure this out and settle things with them. They may be concerned about working and going though school, or maybe feel like you should enjoy your teen years outside of work, since working is what we do for the rest of our lives. Talk with your folks and find out these reasons, and let them know where you stand and how you're feeling. Let them know if you really want something you're going to achieve it with, or without their help.
Hopefully everything goes well!
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Responsibilities such as?
All you can do is try do as much as you can while under their roof and not be idle even if it means you have a lot of catching up to do when you turn 18
I have started drive when i was 18 and i do good at it. You can have experiences anyway
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You will be able to easily change that in a couple of years...
Can you arrange some driving lessons yourself?
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