Is it a bad thing that I got money saved from working and have couple thousand and coworkers be telling others how this girl got money on her?

[Anonymous]

Why are some of them making such a big deal out of it, like yea I got couple thousand saved but that’s not even much to be considered something and secondly I don’t be going telling people they just know I save but they all can save too if they wanted too, so why does it bother them as it sounds like

[Blueeyes81]

Some people can not save. They spend frivolously but don't view it as such, just getting by. So when someone comes along who can they think there life must be easy. It's just an excuse so they don't have to take accountability for their own shitty habits.

[Asker]

Right this coworker keeps saying ohh she got money and u say bc I save it

[Asker]

I say **

[ShoiRara]

Oh, I'd def not say anything to such coworkers about my financial or private life at all.. They are partly jealous because cannot save up, partly just love spreading toxic drama around them. Limit the amount of words to minimal when talking to them for your sake

[Asker]

Right they just be so nosy

[ShoiRara]

And this why you'd better withdraw from spilling beans to them that they might use against you for no reason... really stick to things like what you eat, series you watch and such stuff if non-work related. Anything that's family, finance, relationship is not a good idea to be shared with. Sad, but many people just love to cause trouble for no reason :/

[Asker]

Right they even want to know my relationship status why tho that too?

[ShoiRara]

Only to have something to munch on... Give them only indirect answer which do not imply much...

[ShoiRara]

Giving you some hints with what possible words to answer:
Sorta, kinda, more or less, much, not much, complicated, not sure, good question, don't wanna talk about it
As long as your coworkers are acting like this... keep ditching them... once your supervisor does this... start looking for a new job

[Anonymous]

How do they even know you have money? I would be keeping quite from now on.

[Asker]

They heard I’ve been saving and that I saved up for a new car

[Asker]

I would never think they would make a big deal out of it

[Opinion Owner]

But how would they have heard unless you were stupid to talk about it while they were around

[lightbulb27]

it's a good thing. those around you sound jealous. what htey need to do is learn from you.

you are right a few $$$$ is not a lot anymore.

[Asker]

Right but they make it sound like a big deal

[lightbulb27]

A lot of people are poorly trained, poorly disciplined. even people twice yoru age, so many, live paycheck to paycheck. Gotta think outside the media
next task is to invest it so don't lose it... lookup CD's or US Treasuries bills ( short term).

[lightbulb27]

when you tell them you are making $50 while you sleep... maybe wake them up.

[Asker]

Yeaa I guess so

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You better learn to keep your mouth shut especially regarding money.

Co-workers are never your friends.

[Asker]

Tell me
About it

[virtualwasp]

money on her? what does this mean?

[Asker]

That I have money