Ever stare in the mirror at yourself and wonder am I even human?

[Anonymous]

I have this empty lifeless souless look in my eyes and my face is greasy and covered in pimple scars and blackheads with a receded hairline by my temples with a ugly short wide round face. I kept staring into my eyes wondering what even am I, i felt like crying but no tears came. I can see why everyone avoids me and makes fun off me. Im creepy disgusting and gay. I just feel like im not even human. Like a shell, an empty shell.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, I totally get where you're coming from. I've had those moments too, just staring in the mirror and feeling like I'm not even human, you know? It's such a heavy, empty feeling.

I know it's hard, but try not to be so harsh on yourself, man. The way you see yourself isn't the way everyone else does. Yeah, we all have insecurities and stuff we're not crazy about, but that doesn't make you any less of a person.

Those thoughts of being creepy, disgusting, or "gay" (like that's even an insult) - that's just your brain playing tricks on you. Don't listen to that negative voice. You're a human being, just like the rest of us, and you deserve to feel comfortable in your own skin.

I know it's easier said than done, but try to focus on the things you do like about yourself, even if it's small. Maybe you've got a killer sense of humor, or you're really good at a certain hobby. Celebrate the positive stuff, don't just dwell on the flaws.

And remember, we all deal with self-esteem issues sometimes. You're not alone in feeling this way. The most important thing is to be kind to yourself and not let those intrusive thoughts totally take over.

Maybe try talking to a counselor or joining an online support group. Surrounding yourself with people who can validate your feelings and give you a new perspective can make a huge difference. You got this, dude. Don't give up on yourself.

[Asker]

Yes they do

[Theodish_Warrior]

Look after yourself and do testosterone boosting activities.

[Asker]

i need to have my t level checked, i feel like they were always low as during puberty i never felt sexual arousal

[SueShe]

I believe that you should seek therapy. Your outlook is not healthy and I fear that you are moving towards a depression.

Those scars can be hidden with a touch of make-up and the blackhead issue can also be addressed with some ointment or cream. Best is to check with a dermatologist what can be done about them.

The receding hair is not a problem as such but you seem to create one.

As for the overall appearance, it is all in your hands to change it. Adapt your diet and lose some weight. One of the first places where you will lose some body fat is on your face.

[Asker]

im 6'2 and 150lbs... I feel like i live in a state of depression. Hairline is a problem, especially on my face and headshape. Your really have no clue

[Abbycado]

Sue, he just wants a pity party.

[SueShe]

@Abbycado I recon that you have a point there but...

I haven't seen the state of your hair in the morning otherwise I would probably have to make a comment on it as well 🤔

[Abbycado]

It’s as glorious as it normally is XD

[SueShe]

@Abbycado I know that feeling 😒

[Abbycado]

No, can’t say that I have. I do laugh at the state of my hair in the morning often.

[Asker]

Your heart must be as light as a feather

[Abbycado]

Boo hoo.

[Abbycado]

Wow as me…

[Abbycado]

*Woe

[Asker]

Well when u ain't ugly and a gay man that nobody likes or respects i can see how your life wouldn't be misery

[Anonymous]

Seek therapy kid.

[Asker]

I have they told me there is no issue 🙄