What is a strip club like?

[teguy]

To be honest, I never been in a strip club before and for my friend's bachelor party, probably we will go there. What actaully is happens there, is there any entrance fee or something? Please light me up.

[Effably]

We really can't tell you.

Strip clubs basically come in two main varieties:

1. The sort of sad, a few lonely stragglers kind of type. In these the strippers will normally try to convince you to buy them drinks they overcharge for. It is not unusual that they will give you free champagne and charge you for it after. Its a very poor experience.

2. The social event type. To be honest this is more what stripclubs for women are like. But the core difference is that they typically put on an actual show. Choreography, rehearaed jokes and punchlines. Little audience interaction. This is the typically advertised experience and maybe you'll get it.

I am not much for stripclubs. In my very honest opinion the ones for women seem quite fun. The one for men less so.

Technicalities: Entrance fee is possible but not always.
You will typically be expected to buy drinks at least, as the entertainment itself is generally not charged for.
Girls will flirt with you. Probably to sell some one on one time. That may or may not include more than a dance. Will certainly cost you a bit.
Be very mindful of what you buy. Things like 50$ orange juice is pretty normal.

Ultimately if you guys are going, go and try to have fun but if the place seems seedy, pick another one.

[Effably]

As a small aside: I would strongly recommend going to a sexshow instead. Not only do they tend to be better, they also tend to double as comedy and make for funny stories.

[FunkyMonkee]

I've only been in 3 of them and I don't know if they'd charge at a the door because, they really fuck you over on the drinks!! In one, it was my cousin's bachelor party and we just ended up at a strip club but, mostly, we just sat at a table and talked for a while and the strippers were in another room.
Another time I went to audition for DJ and they didn't charge anything just to walk in.
Another time, a girl I was in college with was doing her gig and invited me to come see her. I don't recall there being a door charge but, they have a 2 drink minimum. I don't drink booze so, I ordered a glass of 7Up. It was probably a 10 oz. glass and most of it was filled with ice!! So, I hardly got more than 2 sips out of each one! The only thing they give you to eat is pretzels so that you get so thirsty you WANT to buy more drink!! Each drink cost me $2.00!! At that point, I could've bought a 2 liter bottle of it for about 90c!!
At her gig, I don't think there were more than 3 other guys there, if that many. At the audition, I don't there were more than 6 or 8 guys there but, it WAS in the afternoon when most people are at work.
Not much of anything goes on. Mostly, you just sit there and watch the girls dance and strip on stage. Most of the guys are VERY quiet. However, I've seen video of a number of women's strips clubs and they are rowdy as fuck!! Yelling, screaming, ripping their clothes off, actually blowing and fucking the strippers!! COMPLETE 180 of what goes on in guys strip clubs!!

[wiltingrosepetal]

Men's strip clubs a little depressing. Or very depressing if you turned the lights on. Overpriced food and not too entertaining. (Then again I don't find women's bodies entertaining in general so what do I know lol). And women's strip clubs are the best fuckin entertainment money can buy, especially when you're drunk 💀 Probably because they're not meant to be taken seriously, just dumb fun

[ApplePie409]

You will have to pay a cover charge to get in. And you will be expected to buy drinks, even if it's just water. The girls solely rely on tips for income. There is no touching, but if you get a private area, there are no rules. Bring your phone, because it gets pretty boring after 10 or so minutes. I just liked that my boyfriend liked it.

He got to drool, and I played my favorite game.

[joehypo1]

Ahh the strip club , i remember walking into beach girls one nite and before I could sit down the girl on stage was pointing at me to come up to stage and she gave me a big ole shirtless hug and whispered into my ear and said "do you remember who I am" and I stepped back to have a look and it was the chick that use to sit next to in English class when I was in high school, I told her Yes I remember, another time me and my cousin were at beach girls and my cousin got up to use the bathroom and this rob zombie looking dude sat in his spot and my cousin told the dude ,"im not gonna tell you again to move" and he grabbed him and threw him off the seat it turned out that there was a bachelor party going on and everybody there except me and my cousin were part of that party bouncer says me and my cousin got to leave and there was a mob of dudes waiting out side we barley made ot to his car i got picked up and slamed onto a car hood which allowed me ro get away but not before I caught a few punches , as far as the girls as long as you got cash they love you oh I got 1 more lol I was at a club called the runway it was out by the airport I went in and was getting a lap dance and the girl said now don't say anything to wilber who was my boss at the time it turns out it was his wife lol

[TommyMountainFigure]

Wow.. That 'hypo' in your Id... You really live up to that lolol > I'm wrecked just from reading all that!!!

[flautistnaturist]

strip clubs are sexual provocation in absence of proper opportunity for sexual arousal to be followed through with. like walking along a buffet and smelling and looking, but not having paid for a meal and just to walk out afterward. better to marry if you need sex, the Bible stipulates. otherwise you only train your brain in pre-pondering sexual sin, as society goes these days. best advice, move into a Bible commune and marry and never think of any other woman as to partake personally of engagement with her sexually.

[flautistnaturist]

from internet photos it seems often people fix a plate and chow down not having paid. seems better to keep one's experience purely monogamous for life. that is the only perspective endorsed by the Bible.

[Flatmanlewis]

All stripclubs are not created equal. The location, the pricing, and the management culture all make a difference. Some are filled with sad and broken people. Others are very clean and modern. The quality of the girls tends to be according to the rest of the factors. I’ve never been alone but I have been with work groups and friends plenty.


I’ve been to plenty and knew quite a few girls who worked at them over the years. A beautiful girl working a club in Vegas can make a small fortune. They fly in from around the country to do so. An average looking girl in some suburb or college town can still make enough to be worth her time.


Even though my wife and I have been to ones in Vegas a few times the truth is they lose their luster after a while and you just sort of get over them. We haven’t been in a decade.

[molonski2]

As an ex part owner of a strip club , I can assure you there are strip clubs and strip clubs ( even in highly regulated Australia ) , look the club has every dam story you can imagine , but to have the best time , and really get what is out there is very tough as a " newbie " , I've seen it all , and there is a giant grey line , HUGE.

But , man , on a great night , with the right crowd , and correct staff , man , it can go off big time , the actual best times as a customer is when you have some experience ( working though all the bullshit ) , is the very quietest of times , and not being in a group , what USA calls " hustle " ( basically conning ) is rampant in busy times.

But , look , the best of times , were the literal best of times. Just particularly in USA be highly selective of your choice of club , look for the vibe that works for you.

[AviatorTom]

There is an entrance fee, sometimes it is waived if there's a group like for a bachelor party. There are dancers on stage, usually one at a time and occasionally all dancers in a group. A DJ plays music for the dancers. Each dancer strips (takes her outfit off). Depending on where you are and what the local rules are, the dancers may get naked, topless, or down to a bikini. The customers sit at tables and watch the dancers. Some may approach the dancer and give her a tip, typically a dollar or two. After a dancer's set (usually 2 or 3 songs), she tours the tables and offers table dances... for a fee. Again, depending on local rules, she may just dance for you, or she may give you a lap dance. Most clubs also have private rooms, sometimes called VIP rooms, where a dancer of your choice and you are in private for a fee, often a couple hundred dollars. What happens in private depends on what the dancer is willing to do... without breaking the law.

[Jersey2]

I haven't been in years. For me it was a fun night with the boys. It’s men being men, unapologetically. Enjoy it.

That said, make sure you don’t get the new husband in trouble. Do buy him sex and warn him to be careful as some will get him drunk and buy him things that can get him in trouble.

There may be a cover charge but I never paid one. Don’t touch the dancers unless you are stuffing a bill in her g-string or under her boob. Laugh, be casual with her, she is there to please.

[Huntingnfishin]

It can be fun it really depends on where ya go. If you go to a dumpy one, yeah it'll be mostly gross old dudes in sweat pants staring at average to ugly girls doing a half assed job of dancing. If you go to a higher end one it'll be more fun just remember that it will def cost more! The more expensive the place the more clean things will be and the prettier the girls. Really only matters where ya go and who you're with! Even a dump with a fun group of guys will be a blast so keep that in mind too!

[JT017]

Last strip club I went to had about 50 guys in it. The women inside were beautiful but you can tell they really did not want to be there. I saw this one stripper walk up to this old man to talk to him (obviously to get money out of him) and the guy hugs her and tries to kiss her on the mouth and she stretches her face away from him until he lets go. The rest of the guys were pretty sad and I just decided to leave cuz I couldn't handle how cringy it was in there.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It's a bar with several ramps and stages for performers and booths for private sessions.

No alcohol served within the premises.

When I insisted on tagging along with my boyfriend (who's now my husband) and his friends, I had fun.

It also seemed like all the customers were having fun.

One of the dancers actually became a friend of our's.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I've arranged three Stag nights before for my friends getting married. 2 of which were at strip clubs. I went to the club a couple of weeks before and sorted out a price and paid it. Then I went to the guys who were going with (Obviously not the bridegroom) told them how much it was going to be (FULL price) not the deal I made.. Then on the night. I surprised them with a kitty of all the extra money I brought in, and it paid for a few rounds of drinks.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Technically ONE round of drinks, but I was best man so it was job to throw in a bit extra!

[RavVid]

There is an entrance fee for most.

Girls get naked dancing on tables or squirming in your lap. Some places have free shows on a stage. Slow Mondays are better than busy Saturday nights as the girls put more effort in on the slow nights.

#1 rule is figure out how much you will spend and leave it at that. Girls will probably ask you to buy them drinks and seduce you into spending money if you let them.

Don't get addicted!

[Apple1996]

A bunch of loner men sitting around paying to see some tits. Its not a fun environment at all. The times I went the strippers seemed happy to see a girl there so that they didn't have to spend the whole night with a bunch of creeps

[KostasKouvalis]

It's much more complicated than that.
Also, why were you at a strip club?

[Apple1996]

@KostasKouvalis to watch my sil strip and another time for fun

[KostasKouvalis]

What's a "sil"?

[Apple1996]

@KostasKouvalis sister in law*

[KostasKouvalis]

That's kind of awkward

[Apple1996]

@KostasKouvalis nah I seen her naked before that

[KostasKouvalis]

WHAT THE?

[Apple1996]

@KostasKouvalis we lived together so it's not weird

[KostasKouvalis]

This has all the information you need. It's more from the perspective of an employee, though it will give you an idea of what to expect as a client too.

The Truth Behind Being An Exotic Dancer

[matchrestore]

I've only been twice, both during bachelor parties. I don't have a desire to go back. It's a depressing scene.

[OddBeMe]

Been only once. Sex and public places never really jived. But lots of overweight men and lots of sweaty non-shaven women giving lap dances for uber money. Serisouly if I were a woman I’d be doing that.

[laly520]

not recommended

dont go to a one, victims giving a performance n other victims paying for it

sad place

[jahaims]

A bunch of broken trauma filled people trying to cope.

[Sameone]

A place where idiots and mentally ill people gather

And bitchs & stripes. Who they rent them body for coupl of dollars

[Vegasrunner]

@teguy what city is the club in? Strip clubs are governed by various state, city and county ordinances. Depending on the answer I can help

[verylovelyguy]

lap dances that give me an orgasm

in private room. both of us naked for the lap dance. sucks me a little bit and a handjob at the end