Nursery picks that I’ve brought so far and other suggestions or just keep it simple and sleek?

[Rebecca2378]

Im going broke, nah but seriously I love what I’ve gathered so far! I wanted to go for a heavenly beach day vibe with animals etc for my baby boy due soon. Im really loving the neutral colour scheme I have going on.

[Screenwriter]

I'd suggest stopping where you are. Children are only babies for two years. You don't need any more stuffed animals or toys, and that pretty baby crib will only work for the first year. A full crib with safety bars would last until your child is 5 or 6, giving you plenty of time to get bunk beds (for friend sleepovers) or a single bed.

I'd suggest you have a dedicated, safe changing table as you will be doing diapers for the next two to three years. Will save your back if it's tall enough with some storage beneath for oil, cleaning wipes, diapers etc.

Plan to get clothes in larger sizes for upcoming seasons. Newborn outfits won't work for spring when he'll be 7 months old. And though that lovely moon is a sweet nightlight, invest in items that will grow with your son. Get a regular table lamp he can use until he's 18. Buy used.

If a toy is washable, kids will not know if it's used or not. Get a new or mildly used car seat. Unless you already have one. Get a bathing tub for when your child is too young to sit up in your tub. You can also wash them in the kitchen sink as long as you hold their heads up. The baby tub makes it easier, though.

I know you're excited as this is your first. But be practical. Open a savings account in your son's name and add to it monthly. Good luck.

[Rebecca2378]

Thank you, we have the money to spend as he grows but yes I get where you are coming from.
We have discussed putting $50 away every week and opening his own bank account as well, by time he reaches 15 That will be roughly $39,000.
For his future schooling, a car and moving out etc if that’s what he wants.
We are being “practical” in a sense we can afford it but yes a bassinet will be easier for me at first and then a timber crib/cot when he can move around.
Clothes are already done, I’ve got overly enough pieces to do him from newborn to 0-3 months so far.
I got the toys as decorations for me really to be completely honest, they are just something I chucked in there to decorate.
We are being completely practical in our own sense and capacity.
My partner is completely against used items, I have tried to go into used stores and he completely disagrees with it and I am not saying there’s anything wrong with it because in my opinion, I don’t think there is.
We have enough money to support him to buy everything new though so I have to stand behind him on that, he’s my partner.
But yes, thanks for the advice. I’ll keep it in mind.

[Rebecca2378]

We live here in Australia as well, education is pretty much free here and nearly everything is bulk billed referring to our health care systems

[Rebecca2378]

Your anxiety and experience are not mine. I don’t even have to explain my choices, but I did because it felt like you were implying I’m overcompensating for my son, which I’m not. What I’ve brought is fine, and your experience isn’t mine.

[Rebecca2378]

I just want to genuinely apologize for my defensive reaction… I’ve been feeling awful all day about the way I responded.
I want to tell you that you’re absolutely right! A couple of bits and pieces second-hand would be a fantastic addition to his bedroom. Even more thoughtful, especially since they’re like little heirlooms being passed down—very cute.
I grew up in foster care and didn’t have a proper childhood. I just want that for him—and for me. In a way, it’ll feel like I’m passing on something meaningful, like I’ve accomplished a part of my life through him.
If I’m being honest, everything I picked wasn’t original price. It was on sale.

Thank you for your time and your advice 💙

Yours truly,
sincerely

[MrChinaski]

Can attest that the health care systems here in Australia are second to none. I recently walked out of a hospital after $200,000 odd of health care and my total bill for the stay was $0.

Publicly-funded schools are pretty hit and miss. Many are staffed by hard-working and dedicated teachers, but they are poorly funded and most of the families that care about education have moved their children to private schools leaving a pretty weak peer group... it's hard to soar like an eagle when you are surrounded by turkeys. Some publicly-funded schools offer little more than child care. Just my 2c. Possibly an ex-post attempt at justifying my dropping of $400,000 on my children's education.

[Screenwriter]

I wasn't offended at all. I'm sorry your partner has that "no used" mindset. Whether you have the money isn't the point. I would strongly advise that 0-3 clothes are limited in use.

If your baby's hefty... say starts off at 8lbs, in three months he'll be wearing 6-month clothes. Used baby clothes can be washed- which means nothing's in or on them. As long as they look good.

I bet he thinks it's insulting that you want to buy used: "I can afford it! Not for MY child! He's too good for that! I can provide!"

Dunno if you can disabuse him of these ideas. Your boy will be in and out of those clothes and YOU'LL have to DONATE THEM!! ha ha! Any used ones are usually only mildly used. Tell him this means more in his BANK ACCOUNT!!! That's the real measure of a good father! Money in the bank.

I get your decorating the room! But the baby doesn't care what the room looks like. But you're impressing the grandparents and relatives.

Buy more books to read to him. THOSE cost a fortune and are hard to find because they get used up, passed down and thrown up on. Good luck with everything. And go out a lot right now with your SO. Might now have the opportunity for months after the baby's here because you're so tired!
Kisses and all!

[Genie23]

Awwww! I like everything you've picked so far. So cute, pretty, and soothing at the same time.

[loveslongnails]

Whatever you do, speak to him in as many languages as you can. The more he learns, the better.

[Rebecca2378]

❤️💯

[AviatorTom]

Looks nice. A musical mobile to hang above the crib will keep the baby happy.

[AI Opinion]

It sounds like you've created a beautiful and calming nursery atmosphere with a heavenly beach day vibe. Since you love the neutral color scheme, you might consider incorporating soft blues, sandy tones, or gentle greens to enhance the beachy feel. You could add subtle touches like seashells, starfish prints, or animal-themed decor to tie in the theme seamlessly. Stay true to your style, and congratulations on your upcoming arrival! 🐚✨

[Anonymous]

I would say to add more color, Rather than having a more neutral color scheme. Having more colors can surprisingly help a child note more differences, be better in math, And strengthen observation skills. So maybe add more colors to the nursery rather than just white, beiges, and other dull colors.

[Anonymous]

I think your picks are very nice. Keep it up.

[Staximus]

What color are you painting the walls?

[ohsheeT]

Love the dog and cat