How can I respectfully ask out a girl I only know from YouTube comments?

[Anonymous]

She is beautiful ❤️, talented in singing and music in general.
She doesn't have a lot of reach, and I wanna ask her out.
I don't know where she lives.
I only have youtube's comment section to talk to her

Updates

2 mo

Hey guys/girls I asked her out. But didn't get any response 😕. I got a heart tho on another video of hers. I think it's done and done. Lost hope tbh

[NathanDavis]

so...

just in case that you actually do it... and she actually agrees to go out with you

and you happen to be in the USA, and she happens to be in Australia

Kapaa, Hawaii would be the perfect middle point for the two of you, to actually meet...

I do hope that helps

[Asker]

I did but I didn't get any any text.
I got a heart on another video of hers but that's about it

[NathanDavis]

well, that's something...

[Asker]

Naa , let it be I got out of it,
If I was a girl, I would have ignored me too😂😂😂

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Yes. Any social media is good enough. Don't let anyone judge. If you don't take opportunities as a man you might end up staying lonely for the next couple of years.

Women are attracted to valour & perfection. Don't let the Gorgons snakes bite at your weakness, you need to become something beyond human. She has to be convinced her future is good with you.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

If you can slip past the Gorgons snakes you aim for her heart. Women are often embarrassed about the things they like & keep it private, but it really is as typical as just thinking about the types of media women often consume. If you understand that, it will teach you a lot in how to charm them.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

DM me

[Calyptomaniac]

Maybe start with asking where she lives and then you can probably extinguish whatever hope you had for this working when you find out she is 4,923 miles away. Youtube comments turning into a relationship might be a funny story though...

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe YouTube recently gave you the option of doing video call with users who comment on your posts or subscribe to you so you have every opportunity to verify that she is not a cat fish.

[Asker]

She uploads videos of her singing

[AI Opinion]

If you only know her from YouTube, keep it very gentle and low‑pressure 🌸
Reply to a few of her videos with thoughtful, specific compliments about her music, not just her looks. If she responds, you can say something like:

“I really love your songs, they’re so heartfelt. If you’re ever comfortable chatting more, I’d be happy to follow you on Instagram / X.”

Let her choose the platform and pace. If she doesn’t engage, accept it gracefully and don’t push. 💬🎵

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't get what makes you proceed like that because you can't know her and she knows that. So, seen from her perspective, I believe it makes you look like you're random at best, and unhinged at worst

[lightbulb27]

Ask and move on because she isn't gonna trust you, gets 45,000 requests a day and you are noone if you don't have a channel you can refer her to where she can feel trust.

[Asker]

I do have a channel just I don't do any videos now...
And all of them are me playing games

[lightbulb27]

you'll have to up your game...

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you never try you will never know & if you want to ask someone out no one is stopping you & if you ask someone you have a 50/50 chance.

Grow a set & go ask her out bro.

[MrChinaski]

Just be honest. Tell her what you like about her music, personality whatever. Keep it brief.

Seems like a low probability play... most of the guys that reach out to her are creeps... but... why not try?

[Abbycado]

Knock yourself out. Not sure how effective that will be.

[Levin]

I think he's gonna get some sweet pussy.

[Abbycado]

Kitties?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

@Levin nowadays he might get a little surprise, I would laugh if she has a pickle.

[Abbycado]

Dill pickles and kitties!

[Nikki1989]

YouTube comments?

Good luck with that.

[Anonymous]

Dear Dreamer, first find out if she'd be open to that kind of invitation by introducing yourself politely and begging her pardon and finding out if she's even available. You sound clueless.

[Asker]

Lol 😂 I didn't do something like that.
She has been dropping in on my feed I loved her voice, started complimenting her.
And got some hearts first.
Then I took my shot like hey hii thanks making this song (my favourite one)
And I had a conversation within chat.
So I asked her wanna swipe id on insta cause write mine or her number in a comment lol.

[Anonymous]

That's kind of far fetched.