I will kill him as there are only girls , boys as pure humans. Gays are self made people. They are unholy. If the world has only lesbian and gays , world will end!!!
I really want grandchildren, so this would be a tough one. I wouldn't try to change them, or love them any less, but I would be pretty sad if there wasn't anyone to call me Grandad
I want kids myself, but being trans I can't biologically have children as the hormones make me sterile. However, there are ways I can have children, and I'll accept them as mines regardless of blood.
I am straight and neither my boyfriend or I want children. Just because your kid is straight doesn't mean they're gonna give you grandkids. And lots of gay people do want kids and either biologically produce one with some help or adopt.
I'm not gay, I'm transsexual. The hormones I take MAKE me sterile, I literally can't have biological kids unless we did a bunch of science stuff and even then, I hear it's impossible. So unless my wife and I find some way with bone marrow or whatever the hell is out there by that time, in my 30s most likely, they will not be biologically related to me.
Also I'm aware not all straight kids will give me grandkids either, I'm not stupid.
I would be mad as hell if my son was gay to be honest. Just because society tolerates it doesn't make it right however I would still love him I guess so long as he doesn't act on it. But if he still marries a woman I wouldn't care.
That's not fair to the woman he marries, he'd be lying to her and that is sick and cruel. I don't see why you think it's better to hurt and lie to another person rather than just let your child be himself. That is extremely selfish and evil of you I'm not sorry.
Who your son or daughter has sexual relations with is their business and theirs only, grow up. there's nothing you can do to STOP someone being gay or lesbian so probably don't have children if you think this way.
Both those people you've blocked are entirely right, and honestly it's incredibly childish that you block literally everyone who disagrees with you. All that really tells me is that you're too immature to actually talk about your disagreements like an adult, or perhaps just that you're so insecure that you can't even handle anyone not supporting your views. But anyhow, you're pretty obviously a bigot, and I honestly hope that you will never have children, as those children will obviously end up with some pretty awful mental health issues if they live any sort of life you disagree with.
I pray you never have kids cause of that. You blocked everyone who disagreed for legitimate reasons, then even told the guy "hows the aids". You're incredibly childish and immature for someone your age, please grow up and never have kids. And I know you blocked me cause I disagreed but I stand by what I said.
Don't be surprised if you do have a child who is gay or transsexual and you never see or talk to them after they leave.
@bubbletrouble I see it a lot. You express your opinion and then you're are attacked for it. It stops being a debate or conversation when personal attacks come into play. Now it's just bullying.
Yes we're the bullies and we clearly state that what YOU said is wrong. You say you'll be mad at you're kid, love him as long as he doesn't act on himself, and marries a women. When we disagreed, you blocked ALL of us like a child having a temper tantrum. But, we're the wrong ones when you clearly expressed you'll be one hellish parent who will not give a damn about your childs life and who they love, so long as they're straight -_-
Why is what I state wrong? How one raises their children has nothing to do with you. I dont approve of homosexuality and despite what you think there is nothing wrong with that.
There is something wrong with how you reacted to our answers in general. You blocked everyone who disagreed as if that was mature but you could have said what you just said now and left it there.
So in reality, I had a great day and will not allow an ignorant person here to ruin my mood. We can continue whatever this is via messaging but don't expect an answer until later today.
I hate it when people block each other. It just leaves no space for further discussion.
However, both sides became wrong when they made this personal.
As for my opinion, I do believe that a chid shouldn't b forced to hide their sexuality in order to keep a parent's love, just because this can hurt them even more than what they are already struggling with is hurting them.
However, I can see that u probably have some very ingrained beliefs of ur own to b saying this @bubbletrouble. I know that it is unlikely that u will change them, at least overnight. But I hope u can see where I am coming from nd if u do happen to have a child like that, to at least take into account that it is ur child whom u love and sometimes we do not exactly agree with the people we love, but we still have to support their choices (sometimes remaining in disagreement with their choices), just because we know this is the best eay we can love them.
Peace out folks! Nd mayb I shouldn't have added my input,
But I myself have been blocked yesterday and I believe that is bcause I forgot to take a second and remind myself that this is a person with whom I disagree (perhaps strongly), but still deserves my respect, because I don't know this person on a personla basies nd they might b more than what their opinion is showing. Not to mention that I might b letting mysel b taken by the heat of the moment nd by my own personal feelings nd treatibg this personal with less respect than what i would like from someone who disagrees with me to have for me.
@HookingSwan I respect your opinion. I hold strong religious conservative beliefs. I would be mad no doubt. I would question where his father and I went wrong. I also am aware of the high risk lifestyle gay men carry and wouldn't want my son to engage in that. These people invading saying I should never have children was blatantly disrespectful. But like I said I wwouldnt care about his thoughts so long as he married another woman. Gay men have been nothing but sweet to me but I dont approve of their lifestyle.
Yes that comment really didn't sit well with me. You should never say that to anyone. Especially someone you only know through what you read on the internet.
N because you have helped me bfore in one of my questions, i could see u were not the horrible person they were making u out to b.
I would be mad if my son was straight heterosexual I will tell him to NOT act on his heterosexual desires or heterosexuality behavior no straights he will marry a man NOT A WOMAN NO WAY JOSE!
I feel I need to give examples cause then people ask why and I gotta reiterate myself in almost every comment. Sorry I like to write. Trust me when I say this is the shorter version.
You're funny and loved your take. You will be a great father and parent :) <3
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I would have nothing to do with my kid if after psychological counseling didn't want to change. I believe all humans are born heterosexual and homosexuality is a mental illness. Bring on the down votes this is my opinion!
In my experience, a lot of people I met DON'T want kids. And most of them are straight. Talk to my gay, lesbian, bi, and trans friends and they're the ones who want babies.
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I couldn't care less what their sexuality would be.
"You're gay? Yay you. Moving on."
I see it as a failure to be a parent if you can't support your child through this.
I will kill him as there are only girls , boys as pure humans. Gays are self made people. They are unholy. If the world has only lesbian and gays , world will end!!!
Well you are correct. We are self made. Just born the way we are.
I really want grandchildren, so this would be a tough one. I wouldn't try to change them, or love them any less, but I would be pretty sad if there wasn't anyone to call me Grandad
I want kids myself, but being trans I can't biologically have children as the hormones make me sterile. However, there are ways I can have children, and I'll accept them as mines regardless of blood.
I am straight and neither my boyfriend or I want children. Just because your kid is straight doesn't mean they're gonna give you grandkids. And lots of gay people do want kids and either biologically produce one with some help or adopt.
I'm not gay, I'm transsexual. The hormones I take MAKE me sterile, I literally can't have biological kids unless we did a bunch of science stuff and even then, I hear it's impossible. So unless my wife and I find some way with bone marrow or whatever the hell is out there by that time, in my 30s most likely, they will not be biologically related to me.
Also I'm aware not all straight kids will give me grandkids either, I'm not stupid.
I would be mad as hell if my son was gay to be honest. Just because society tolerates it doesn't make it right however I would still love him I guess so long as he doesn't act on it. But if he still marries a woman I wouldn't care.
That's not fair to the woman he marries, he'd be lying to her and that is sick and cruel. I don't see why you think it's better to hurt and lie to another person rather than just let your child be himself. That is extremely selfish and evil of you I'm not sorry.
please never have children.
Blocked @Minxxie
Who your son or daughter has sexual relations with is their business and theirs only, grow up. there's nothing you can do to STOP someone being gay or lesbian so probably don't have children if you think this way.
@26ukdude you're offended because you are gay. You've even admitted that you are gay. Hows the aids? Blocked.
Both those people you've blocked are entirely right, and honestly it's incredibly childish that you block literally everyone who disagrees with you. All that really tells me is that you're too immature to actually talk about your disagreements like an adult, or perhaps just that you're so insecure that you can't even handle anyone not supporting your views. But anyhow, you're pretty obviously a bigot, and I honestly hope that you will never have children, as those children will obviously end up with some pretty awful mental health issues if they live any sort of life you disagree with.
I pray you never have kids cause of that. You blocked everyone who disagreed for legitimate reasons, then even told the guy "hows the aids". You're incredibly childish and immature for someone your age, please grow up and never have kids. And I know you blocked me cause I disagreed but I stand by what I said.
Don't be surprised if you do have a child who is gay or transsexual and you never see or talk to them after they leave.
whatever girls, it ain't that deep. @cipher42 @takeowner
you raise your kids one way, I will raise my kids another.
Blocking people who disagree with you on a site specifically made for giving and debating opinons, wow.
@angelling These people did say they wish she never has kids. That is just as wrong.
@SilenRose thank you. They dont see what they did wrong.
@bubbletrouble I see it a lot. You express your opinion and then you're are attacked for it. It stops being a debate or conversation when personal attacks come into play. Now it's just bullying.
@SilenRose wow girl. you're my new best friend. These people that commented (save you) are all bullies and dont even see what they did wrong.
Yes we're the bullies and we clearly state that what YOU said is wrong. You say you'll be mad at you're kid, love him as long as he doesn't act on himself, and marries a women. When we disagreed, you blocked ALL of us like a child having a temper tantrum. But, we're the wrong ones when you clearly expressed you'll be one hellish parent who will not give a damn about your childs life and who they love, so long as they're straight -_-
Why is what I state wrong? How one raises their children has nothing to do with you. I dont approve of homosexuality and despite what you think there is nothing wrong with that.
There is something wrong with how you reacted to our answers in general. You blocked everyone who disagreed as if that was mature but you could have said what you just said now and left it there.
So in reality, I had a great day and will not allow an ignorant person here to ruin my mood. We can continue whatever this is via messaging but don't expect an answer until later today.
They attacked me personally so they got blocked.
I hate it when people block each other. It just leaves no space for further discussion.
However, both sides became wrong when they made this personal.
As for my opinion, I do believe that a chid shouldn't b forced to hide their sexuality in order to keep a parent's love, just because this can hurt them even more than what they are already struggling with is hurting them.
However, I can see that u probably have some very ingrained beliefs of ur own to b saying this @bubbletrouble. I know that it is unlikely that u will change them, at least overnight. But I hope u can see where I am coming from nd if u do happen to have a child like that, to at least take into account that it is ur child whom u love and sometimes we do not exactly agree with the people we love, but we still have to support their choices (sometimes remaining in disagreement with their choices), just because we know this is the best eay we can love them.
Peace out folks! Nd mayb I shouldn't have added my input,
But I myself have been blocked yesterday and I believe that is bcause I forgot to take a second and remind myself that this is a person with whom I disagree (perhaps strongly), but still deserves my respect, because I don't know this person on a personla basies nd they might b more than what their opinion is showing. Not to mention that I might b letting mysel b taken by the heat of the moment nd by my own personal feelings nd treatibg this personal with less respect than what i would like from someone who disagrees with me to have for me.
Nd that is not alright.
@HookingSwan I respect your opinion. I hold strong religious conservative beliefs. I would be mad no doubt. I would question where his father and I went wrong. I also am aware of the high risk lifestyle gay men carry and wouldn't want my son to engage in that. These people invading saying I should never have children was blatantly disrespectful. But like I said I wwouldnt care about his thoughts so long as he married another woman. Gay men have been nothing but sweet to me but I dont approve of their lifestyle.
Take care.
I got it @bubbletrouble
I respect what you are saying as well
Yes that comment really didn't sit well with me. You should never say that to anyone. Especially someone you only know through what you read on the internet.
N because you have helped me bfore in one of my questions, i could see u were not the horrible person they were making u out to b.
Take care as well
I would be mad if my son was straight heterosexual I will tell him to NOT act on his heterosexual desires or heterosexuality behavior no straights he will marry a man NOT A WOMAN NO WAY JOSE!
@Nohetero so one of you that I blocked made another account to troll me eh?
What makes you think you will even have kids? In my experience the people who plan to have kids are the ones who end up not having them lol
yikes
shots fired
I said I want kids, not I'm definitely going to have any.
And thats your experience, honey, but that's not me:)
And I highly doubt you actually read this if you said that as I clearly state at the end I may change.
You could've removed 90% of this and just kept the TL;DR
I don't even know what the hell that means.
You didn't need to write the essay. The last paragraph was enough.
I feel I need to give examples cause then people ask why and I gotta reiterate myself in almost every comment. Sorry I like to write. Trust me when I say this is the shorter version.
I wouldn't blink twice. They are normal and I'd love them for who they are.
You're funny and loved your take. You will be a great father and parent :) <3
I would have nothing to do with my kid if after psychological counseling didn't want to change. I believe all humans are born heterosexual and homosexuality is a mental illness.
Bring on the down votes this is my opinion!
I would support them regardless.
>__________< This makes no sense.
Sorry?
I want grand kids so they best not be gay!
I know many straight people who don't want kids, so good luck with that.
In my experience, everyone I've met wants kids.
In my experience, a lot of people I met DON'T want kids. And most of them are straight. Talk to my gay, lesbian, bi, and trans friends and they're the ones who want babies.
I suppose it's all anecdotal and rather subjective. I'm south Asian, south Asians tend to want and have a lot children.
But I think my chances are high, and I'll take all the luck I can get.
Does anyone know what a rainbow means?
Gay pride
Wonderful take ☺️