I Don't Want Kids! (Page 4)

[ThisBeautifulGirl]

Im the same way I have tocophopia and plus kids are too much work and cost too much

[Takyon]

i see no reasons for having a relationship if you are not even reproducing
The only advantage in a relationship with a woman is regular sex, since women don't love men as much as men love women.

[Flex4Ever]

That's the worst bullshit I've read in a long time. Thank you for this.

[jacquesvol]

That's healthy at 16.
I'm not sure you'll still think it at 30.

[Sara413]

I thought that at 16. Still think it at 30.

Some people just don't have that biological imperative to produce children. I think there has always been a sizeable minority of women who don't, but it's only been very recently with the progress of feminism that those women have begun to feel more comfortable being honest about it rather than simply resigning to following the norm.

[Ruby355]

@Sara413 where do I find women who dont? I have no desire to have children, but every woman I meet already has kids, or wants one/more asap.

[Sara413]

@Ruby355 most people want kids in general. Took me forever to find a guy who doesn't! They're lit there...

[Sara413]

@Ruby355 just do yourself and the women you date a favor and be clear about not wanting kids.

[Ruby355]

@Sara413 yeah it's hard. I'm in more of a rural area with people being more traditional. I am very much so as well, other than not wanting children. The last girl I dated was putting deadlines on it, wanting a kid within two years after dating a month. Hearing that just pushed me father towards not wanting it, as at the time I wasn't sur.

[Sara413]

@Ruby355 you might need to branch out of your hometown. I grew up in a rural area too and I left when I was 18 and never looked back haha never bothered dating in high school because I Kew I didn't want that life (married at 21, 3 or 4 kids by 30).

[Ruby355]

@Sara413 I moved away from that toilet eight years ago lol. Never looked back, and it's by far been the best decision I've ever made. My biggest problem is just me being blue collar/average with a country boy tendency lol. The women I attract all want the family thing, and that's just not my thing. I'm pretty weird I guess lol.

And I definitely have been working on branching out. The whole state of mn seems to be stuck in 1955.

[Sara413]

@Ruby355 lol I feel ya man... I got lucky when I met my man. I wasn't sure it'd ever happen!

[Ruby355]

@Sara413 good for you! At this point it really doesn't bother me that much, but there's times it would be nice to be cuddling with someone at night.

[truthhammer]

dont. I've seen people who never watned kids have them. terrible deprived kids i tell you

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

I'd never do that to my child if I ever had a kid.

[truthhammer]

yah but if you dont want kids i dont think people should have them.

although itd be a deal breaker for me, i wouldn't want her to have them just for me as she's gotta have that in her

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

I understand that but still.

[dudeman]

just dont bitch about it when you change your mind when its too late.

[Walls_and_Doors]

I don't actually want you to have kids. So we all win.

[reptocarl]

Nothing wrong with it in my book

[sakurawizard1024]

from other perspective castration and worries free life

[Prettygurl12]

Someone finally said it.

[browny2020]

mmmm the motherhood Instinct will force you to have kids some day

[Iloveasianfood1]

Ages she most fertile 19-30

[Sara413]

Interesting. I'm gonna be 30 in a month and it still hasn't kicked in... gee willickers, it's almost as if not every woman in the world has the same desires or urges!

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

@Sara413 I'm reading all of your comments and oh my god you're awesome haha I like you!

[serious]

That's perfectly fine if you never want kids!

[CaramelCookie]

Nobody is forcing you to have kids lol.

[QuestionMan]

In 10 years you might change your mind.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

probably not :)

[QuestionMan]

When the hormones kick in you'll see.
You're still young and don't see the whole picture. Give it time, you'll meet someone and your perspective will change radically. Life has a way of doing that.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

I guess the hormones haven't kicked in for my 30 year old aunts and @teawrecks right?

[QuestionMan]

It's a mix of hormones and meeting the right person.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

lol K

[QuestionMan]

Time will tell.

[Iloveasianfood1]

Or when she hits 21-35 so fertile

[Sara413]

I'm going to be 30 in a month and I have found the right partner.

Still don't want kids.

Jus saying...

[Iloveasianfood1]

@Sara413 wateverrrrr

[Iloveasianfood1]

Just. Real nature lmao

[Iloveasianfood1]

Just nature get so offended lmao god girls e horny 18-30fertile... All said

[lolatyou]

Maybe in a few years you'll change your mind and not want kids then.

[lolatyou]

I've also been told the same thing, since I was 15, by people who think I will change my mind or "meet the right person". For me the right person is someone else who doesn't want children and who wouldn't want me to do something for the next 18 years- that I have no interest in doing.

[QuestionMan]

@lolatyou Alright then you do you.
Kinda sad though that you're giving up the ability to bring life into this world.

[lolatyou]

Yes, it's very sad that I will live my life how I want to lol

[lolatyou]

There are plenty of people in world as it is. It's also actually sad that so many people want to bring life into the world, when there are enough children in the world who don't have a home as it is. It can work both ways.

[QuestionMan]

@lolatyou I get that you live your life as you see fit it just sadness me when women give up their reproductive capabilities. The ability to bring life into this world is magical, it's something I've always admired about women. To wait 9 months and go through labor takes incredible strength.

[lolatyou]

It shouldn't sadden you that someone chooses what makes them happy, it's their life after all.

Women are made to have children, our bodies are made for it, it doesn't take that much strength.

It's not that magical if nearly every other woman on the planet can do it. Getting pregnant and labor are probably the easiest things to do out of being a parent. I would almost bet that the next 18 years are far more difficult lol

[Sara413]

What's sad is people bringing life into this world who have no business raising a child...

[Sara413]

@lolatyou Hahaha no shit. I always think it's funny when people revere women for our baby making abilities... half the world's population can do this and it literally takes zero skill or training... people literally do it ACCIDENTALLY.. so what is so amazing about it? For me the ability to accidentally create a baby has always been nothing more than a royal pain u the arse!

[YourFutureEx]

Adopt me. I'm not a kid >(ʘ. ʘ)<

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

cool. no one cares. want a cookie?

[WombRaider]

You can always adopt...

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

your name + your profile picture made me giggle

and I know but I don't want kids in general, and if I had a kid I'd want it to be my DNA

[WombRaider]

Surrogate?

You're still very young. You might end up wanting one or two when you're older.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

Yea I *might* but CURRENTLY I do not. Kids? no thanks. not for me. now or in the future.
I MIGHT change my mind BUT... probably not.

[ThisDudeHere]

Good for you.

[james_mark]

What about adopting a kid?

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

probably not unless we agreed on wanting a baby and one of us was infertile

[james_mark]

Then you don't like kids?

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

kids just aren't for me

[james_mark]

You are still too young for kids. after some years many things will change and you will love to have kids.

[kambo_trick3y]

Okay, cool.

[abundantlyrich]

Ok ☺️😏😌😑