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Why Nice Guys Aren't--A Guide to the Games They Play (Page 3)

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  • spartan68808
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    I might not get as many girls as other guys, but fruit tastes sweeter if you learn to savor it.

    I only want to meet one girl that I can share a deep love with, one night stands seem overrated.

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  • bubbleboy
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    Right on spot man. MNG needs to grow some balls and just say what needs to be said within the first week!

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  • TiaTia
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    Love this article, its so true. Why can't a guy listen to a girl's problems without trying to get with her? Well, the MNG that is.

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  • GIntrovert
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    "He's pretending to be something he's not (her friend)" - don't you also mean, pretending to be a nice guy?

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  • Takkunlee
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    The guy just has to let the girl know that he has feelings for her without coming off creepy of course.

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  • Kerenai
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    i like how you wrote on both the guy's and girl's perspective. that's what made the article even better.

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  • LuvBiddy
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    Yet another reason for not showing any weaknesses to others. On a side note, 9 times out of 10, guy friends belong in the friend zone.

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  • WeaponZero
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    KRyan: I'm not saying there aren't genuine nice guys aren't. I'm saying there are a difference between genuine nice guys and so-called "nice guys."

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  • WeaponZero
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    AdamThomas: A lot of guys who do this aren't aware they're doing it.

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  • confusedgirl239
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    Theres not even a way to tell you how right you are. I'm seconding that AMEN shouted out before.

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  • AnayaWilliams
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    Nice article it tells a lot about my ex and how he played me

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  • aster
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    Can I have an AMEN?

    Why can't more guys think like this man?

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  • WeaponZero
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    GIntrovert: Yes, but he's fooling himself in thinking he is too.

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  • glowboy
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    By definition if a person is a player then they are not a nice guy

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  • CorneliaisPretty
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    wow I had no idea, now I have to consider a few of my friends... thanks for the warning :)

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  • Anonymous
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    This MyTake is SO awesome. Tis is exactly what I've thought all along.

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      Also, I love your writing style! It's so direct and to the point, especially the last two paragraphs.

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    • WeaponZero
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      thanks. That comes from being an aspie =P

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    • Anonymous
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      Well, I think your writing still is just brilliant!

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  • virgin_guy
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    What about guys that aren't friends with girls and just keep to themselves and are quiet, but generally considered nice? I don't think it's fair

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  • theotherguy23
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    So what you are saying is "nice guys" are just guys trying to get a girlfriend by being nice to the girl he likes. That sounds like common knowledge to me.

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  • Change_is_good
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    I didn't even realize I was doing this. Time to change. My only defence is that normally I like to get to know a girl, but might as well do that while dating!

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  • AfricanD
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    I like this article, and I get what you are saying. If you want something 'step up', don't be dishonest.

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