So what you are saying is "nice guys" are just guys trying to get a girlfriend by being nice to the girl he likes. That sounds like common knowledge to me.
I didn't even realize I was doing this. Time to change. My only defence is that normally I like to get to know a girl, but might as well do that while dating!
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I might not get as many girls as other guys, but fruit tastes sweeter if you learn to savor it.
I only want to meet one girl that I can share a deep love with, one night stands seem overrated.
Right on spot man. MNG needs to grow some balls and just say what needs to be said within the first week!
Love this article, its so true. Why can't a guy listen to a girl's problems without trying to get with her? Well, the MNG that is.
"He's pretending to be something he's not (her friend)" - don't you also mean, pretending to be a nice guy?
The guy just has to let the girl know that he has feelings for her without coming off creepy of course.
i like how you wrote on both the guy's and girl's perspective. that's what made the article even better.
Yet another reason for not showing any weaknesses to others. On a side note, 9 times out of 10, guy friends belong in the friend zone.
KRyan: I'm not saying there aren't genuine nice guys aren't. I'm saying there are a difference between genuine nice guys and so-called "nice guys."
AdamThomas: A lot of guys who do this aren't aware they're doing it.
Theres not even a way to tell you how right you are. I'm seconding that AMEN shouted out before.
Nice article it tells a lot about my ex and how he played me
Can I have an AMEN?
Why can't more guys think like this man?
GIntrovert: Yes, but he's fooling himself in thinking he is too.
By definition if a person is a player then they are not a nice guy
wow I had no idea, now I have to consider a few of my friends... thanks for the warning :)
This MyTake is SO awesome. Tis is exactly what I've thought all along.
Also, I love your writing style! It's so direct and to the point, especially the last two paragraphs.
thanks. That comes from being an aspie =P
Well, I think your writing still is just brilliant!
What about guys that aren't friends with girls and just keep to themselves and are quiet, but generally considered nice? I don't think it's fair
So what you are saying is "nice guys" are just guys trying to get a girlfriend by being nice to the girl he likes. That sounds like common knowledge to me.
I didn't even realize I was doing this. Time to change. My only defence is that normally I like to get to know a girl, but might as well do that while dating!
I like this article, and I get what you are saying. If you want something 'step up', don't be dishonest.