there is... the problem is most times girls don't know they are friendzoning guys. They may not be very honest about their true intentions... therefore they shouldn't blame us if they get "friendzoned" by default. Anyways, of course there are also manipulative girls that know exactly what they are doing.
It's been my experience that women put guys into 2 categories 1. they want to fuck you 2. they want to be friends with you. if you're one you can't be the other. It's always been a problem for me because i don't want to fuck any woman i don't like. Sorry it takes more than attraction. but that means i always lose out. So i'd say there is most definitely a friend zone.
The friendzone as you guys define it... that we intentionally ignore men that we know are attracted to us and treat them as friends... that's what I am saying most of the times we don't know we are doing that.
We think you guys want to be friends... and that is why we treat you as friends... if that is the friendzone... I don't know...
Like I said, I see the friendzone as the 1st deffinition I mentioned above...
@WitchsLove i might agree with that in part. but i know for fact that there are a lot of women who know it and keep the guy leashed because she knows she's got him hooked and it feeds her ego. You can't tell me these women are innocent they most certainly are not. No one guy or girl should keep the other gender dangling. get serious about them or cut them loose.
Of course. Many women can be manipulative. But I also know many others sincerely think they also just want to be friends. Before I thought in the same way as them, but after something happened to me I tend to be more dubious about when guys say they want to be "friends".
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im sure there are guys like this... but where do i find a guy like this
They're definitely not under the age of 18.
@EnglishArtsteacher LOL 😂 how much longer?
They're 40 years old (or older), and even then, it's maybe five percent.
Agree! I have found men make better friends. Women get jealous and catty.
Awesome. I have some sister-like relationships with a few girlfriends. It's awesome. We're friends, but we still bag on eachother.
nice take , even i dont feel anything for my best female friends but i dont want them to end with bad partner.
"They are lie brother" Dammit! We will never escape brothers!
Hey, being brothers isn't bad.
@SalvadorGrotheimen I´M ALREADY A BROTHER TO MY ACTUAL SISTER I DON'T WANT ANOTHER SISTER!
One big difference: This one you don't actually have to live with.
@SalvadorGrotheimen Well my sister is 20 and she moved to South Korea today so... I dont have to live with my actual sister either...
Well, all right then.
Your an amazing weirdo. I love you
I've actually always wanted a little sister, and now I have two. So this goes both ways.
omg yes I needed this :) Thanks for posting :)
agree guys are the best hence why i dont be freinds with women
bunch of drama queens
They also can help with a "pity fuck" if you need one from time to time...
I get all of those from my girl friends tbh
that's amazing!
Thanks!
can't agree more, very nice take darling
Yes guys are great as friends I’m falling for a friend of mine
They also end up in the friendzone LOL
there's no such thing as the friendzone.
there is... the problem is most times girls don't know they are friendzoning guys. They may not be very honest about their true intentions... therefore they shouldn't blame us if they get "friendzoned" by default. Anyways, of course there are also manipulative girls that know exactly what they are doing.
It's been my experience that women put guys into 2 categories 1. they want to fuck you 2. they want to be friends with you. if you're one you can't be the other. It's always been a problem for me because i don't want to fuck any woman i don't like. Sorry it takes more than attraction. but that means i always lose out. So i'd say there is most definitely a friend zone.
The friendzone as you guys define it... that we intentionally ignore men that we know are attracted to us and treat them as friends... that's what I am saying most of the times we don't know we are doing that.
We think you guys want to be friends... and that is why we treat you as friends... if that is the friendzone... I don't know...
Like I said, I see the friendzone as the 1st deffinition I mentioned above...
@WitchsLove i might agree with that in part. but i know for fact that there are a lot of women who know it and keep the guy leashed because she knows she's got him hooked and it feeds her ego. You can't tell me these women are innocent they most certainly are not. No one guy or girl should keep the other gender dangling. get serious about them or cut them loose.
Of course. Many women can be manipulative. But I also know many others sincerely think they also just want to be friends. Before I thought in the same way as them, but after something happened to me I tend to be more dubious about when guys say they want to be "friends".
I agree with this 100%
after my ex cheated on me with one of her guy friends, i dont trust a girls guy friends anymore
And i think girls as friends are great. So i agree
Can girls not do this or?
not from my experience but hey everyone is different!
Nice take
Nice take! It's good to know you're appreciated!
and they can be with benefits too? lol