How to stop being the 'Karen' in the group?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys,
Its pretty obvious i'm the 'karen' of the group in my recently new group of friends.. when i first met them i felt like we were all kind of 'equal' now its split into two pairs of bessies and i feel like the plumb! they compliment eachother all the time and never me, even if i'm wearing the same item of clothing as someone previoiusly got complimented on! They talk about nights out and discuss when's best for them to do it, i just assumed i was invited the first couple of times but now i've realised i'm kind of not! I'm genuinely sick of feeling like i'm pissing them off just by being there, i'm quite capable of doing my own thing and i'd much rather catch up on assignments than follow them around talking about how many guys they slept with Sunday night, but you know, its nice to have mates..!
any advice on how i get out of being the 'karen' in the group? or do i just migrate and find other friends? this post might sound immature, but its a big deal ha! i'm 24, studying an access course at college for uni next year eek.
thanks guys x

[QuiteCurious]

Clearly they aren't even real friends. Its obvious that they're leaving you out and making you feel like shit. Even if you dont care, it seems like their goal is to purposely make you feel left out. Trying to change your status in that group of "friends" isn't worth it because even if you change, there's no guarabtee that they will. I definitely would suggest migrating and looking for better friends. I hope this helps, there are kinder people out there! Goodluck :)

[Asker]

Thank you! x