What are some ways to have a miscarriage?

[Anonymous]

I'm 3-4 weeks pregnant and I'm 19 years old, I'm not ready to have a kid and I'm terrified of telling my parents and I'll be heading to job corps soon. I don't know what to do, the dad was telling me he would do anything to make me happy and get a place for me and him but today we where talking about the whole baby thing and he was like I fucked up your life I'm so sorry I'm a bad boyfriend and my doors opening is closed because of the baby. It makes me feel like he telling me I'm going to be doing this all on my own.. plus he is going to the military late this year...

[Afro-dite9]

😨wowwww! How's about u leave this fuxker alone and actually raise the child!!! It's not his or her fault ur in this situation. You can only learn from this and move on. Ik a ton of women and some guy's believe it or not who regret aborting a kid. And he is just bullshitting you, if he wanted u to really be happy he wouldn't have u on this site asking this question in the first place and u even feel he will toss u aside. Don't take it out on the unborn that's all I'm saying. Idc what the situation is I'm not for abortions.. and I do mean I don't care what situation people. Try me I'll have the same answer. I'm not here to judge, just think all of this over kid before u make a decision👌good luck. And by the way u wanting to no ways to have an abortion is the same as abortion don't be in denial. It'll still haunt u regardless. Parents get over these types of things, just talk to them. I'm 24 and I'd be scared to have a kid at any age esp now lol but that's life. They understand kid's make mistakes they were young too.

[Asker]

Thank you for opening my eyes but don't call me kid

[Afro-dite9]

Everyone is a kid in my eye's when that's how I talk, not an age thing chill... dollface😉better lol? But I'm always open minded👌 and ur welcome😊

[Asker]

Lol ok better :P

[Anonymous]

Dont look at it as if your life is screwed up. Having a baby is a great thing if you are willing to be a good parent. Think that if you do decide to have this baby you will not be a bad parent to them. I dont know how to have a miscarriage and i dont think you should be trying to do that. Dont think too strongly on why it id bad and prepare for the baby, it is coming and it is the right time to take responsibility. The military is not a bad thing, let your boyfriend pay for a place for you and the baby to stay. You also can work until your later into your pregnancy. Get all the assistance you can. And even if you dont want the baby now, congradulations. If you do decide to not have the baby, then it is your decision. But get it done by a professional, dont do anything like trying to make yourself lose the child.

[Asker]

Makes me not want to even think that anymore.. when he goes to the military don't they help you or anything?

[Opinion Owner]

Im sorry i dont know. But i think so. My cousin is twenty years old and she had her first child when neither her nor her boyfriend were emplyed. With the support of her family at the baby shower and money from him jjoining the military as well as money she saved up from working during her pregnancy and donations from our family members (me included) she got a very nice house in a nother state and is doing well for herself. I am so proud of her and am sure you can manage if you prepare. But no one would blame you if you decide to get an abortion if you dont think your ready for a baby. Just dont try to purposefully get a miscarriage i dont knwo why you would want to but i would advise against it.

[Bea123]

maybe you shouldn't have been careless and gotten pregnant in the first place.
to me it sounds like your purposely trying to kill the baby. i dont know the answer to your question but do it fast before it is living and growing inside of you.
i guess you could get an abortion or drink while your pregnant, but i dont know.

[Asker]

Haha just wait when you get knocked up and someone tells you that.

[Bea123]

so what are you going to do?

[MyMintFrappe]

If he's going into the military then you will be doing a lot alone. He's going to be gone for long periods of time.

If you want an abortion then go to a planned parenthood clinic.

[Asker]

Active duty marines... yeah that scares me too I'm to losed

[Josht11]

I have some suggestions since you clearly don't want an abortion:
Cocaine
alcohol
Cigarettes
"accidentally" falling.

Although it's a bit of a cunt thing to do to try and kill a fetus using these methods, please just get an abortion.

[Asker]

I just don't know what to do and you can't do it here in wyoming..

[Josht11]

Road trip.

[Josht11]

If you really want a way to miscarry here are some good ones:
www.newhealthadvisor.com/...use-a-Miscarriage.html
I don't really think this is a good thing to do but it's not that bad since the fetus is really young, won't have developed a nervous system and won't feel pain.

[NYkid27]

You should just have an abortion instead of trying to force a miscarriage. If you're going to kill the baby you might as well have a professional do it

[ScorpioMoonChick]

You're 3-4 weeks, so find a clinic that can give you the abortion pill. Get your boyfriend to take you.

[idkwtftoputhere]

Just get a fucking abortion, why ruin your life just cus you don't "agree" with it?

[Zendrya]

Just get an abortion...

[Zendrya]

I don't really agree with it but it is easier and better than trying to miscarry.

[Asker]

NO! I can't and won't...

[Zendrya]

Why? It is just as bad as trying to miscarry... It is still killing your baby

[Asker]

I can't, I want it to be natural...

[Zendrya]

purposely miscarrying isn't natural...

[Riseagainst29]

I think she's a troll

[Zendrya]

I hope... @Riseagainst29

[Asker]

Well fuck and I bet you don't even know anything of what I'm asking people are just going to judge just because it's not happening to them..

[Dandeus]

Forcing a miscarriage is an amateur abortion anyway. It's what people did before it was legal to have an abortion. The end result is the same, it's just more dangerous.

[Zendrya]

I know plenty thank you.

[ZionOrtov]

Why would you kill the baby when it's your fault?

[Asker]

It's personal... and it wasn't my fault I could tell you that

[ZionOrtov]

Well I don't see why the innocent child should die because of mistakes or forces beyond his control.

It's destructive and that's against nature's rule for being prosperous aka surviving, and on top of that it isn't just.

[ZionOrtov]

If you don't want the child after it's born fine give it away, but don't destroy it.

[Riseagainst29]

Get an abortion then.

[Asker]

Shake my head* ... 😔