Ok so I work as a cam girl. Some guys want someone to chat with so they can also pay to text through an app. I worry someone I know might find out so I lie about my age and name and never show my face or wear a mask. I met a guy who wanted to chat and trade pics. He was around my age and we got along great. He paid for a nice bit of my time. Turns out we even lived in the same city. We did sext and share pics. Close up or selfies, never face. I found him very attractive since he was super fit and was hung. We also talked about other stuff and I started to like him so I stopped charging him.
Few months we talked and even talked about meeting up for real to see if we connect and maybe hook up. First we decide about time we shared face pics; he went first. Turns out it was my brother. We didn't notice since our pics didn't give us away. He didn't know it was me since my age and name were different and I wore a mask. I didn't know he was so ripped since I never really seen him without a shirt.
I feel bad, I ghosted him. I didn't want to tell him it was me because it would also mean him knowing about me camming. I remember him talking about how he met a cool girl he was talking to and had a crush on. Turns out it was me and now he has no idea why this girl stopped texting him. My brother anyways had poor confidence and never really good with girls so it's even worse. I'm discussed with myself because we did get intimate which I wouldn't have done if I knew. Also I now see my brother different; seeing his body was one thing but also from getting to know him on a personal level, like I never knew he broke up with his ex because she cheated on him or that a family friend sexually assulted him when we were kids.
I'm looking for any advice on this situation. I just feel bad and gross. I stopped camming for the time being because of it. My relationship with my brother has been very stressed too. He of course has no idea. So any advice? Should I tell my brother the truth?
Few months we talked and even talked about meeting up for real to see if we connect and maybe hook up. First we decide about time we shared face pics; he went first. Turns out it was my brother. We didn't notice since our pics didn't give us away. He didn't know it was me since my age and name were different and I wore a mask. I didn't know he was so ripped since I never really seen him without a shirt.
I feel bad, I ghosted him. I didn't want to tell him it was me because it would also mean him knowing about me camming. I remember him talking about how he met a cool girl he was talking to and had a crush on. Turns out it was me and now he has no idea why this girl stopped texting him. My brother anyways had poor confidence and never really good with girls so it's even worse. I'm discussed with myself because we did get intimate which I wouldn't have done if I knew. Also I now see my brother different; seeing his body was one thing but also from getting to know him on a personal level, like I never knew he broke up with his ex because she cheated on him or that a family friend sexually assulted him when we were kids.
I'm looking for any advice on this situation. I just feel bad and gross. I stopped camming for the time being because of it. My relationship with my brother has been very stressed too. He of course has no idea. So any advice? Should I tell my brother the truth?
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