Guys don't 'feel' - that's a female thought process. Mom is a narcissist egotist. It's ALL about her. She never did understand her only son, which is such a shame. Contact is extremely limited. She's just not welcome. You can pick your friends, but you inherit your relatives. Neither one is deserving of your time if they are toxic, including your parents or children.
She’s egocentric and selfish. I’ve never really gotten along with her. She only thinks about herself, and has treated my dad selfishly. I would call it emotional/mental abuse, but he would never say anything like that of course.
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I love both my parents but they also frustrate me. My farther has a martyr complex and my mother also slightly has it too. I can't tell you how frustrating and draining it is when they're always trying to play the victim instead of just simply taking responsibility!!
I used to have such a great relationship with her when i was a kid, although for the past 2 years she has had depression and mental unwellness, which has led to her being an awful mother. Treating my dad, sister and i like absoloute shit. My dad has pretty much single patented me, whilst getting shit from my mum the whole time. She is so emotionally draining. I dont even want to be around her It breaks my heart that i don't even want a relationship with her
When I was very young it was really good. Unfortunately because of overall deteriorating relationship between her and my father she became extremely stressed, which led her to yell often, quickly become upset, etc.
Now However she is generally quite good but I'm still uneasy at times
My Mom had six children. .. was (is) an unbelievable Mother/person! She fell pregnant with me at 14 and dealt with all that followed. Shebeas living, kind, supportive and encouraging. She now lies in hospital with dementia and drifts in and out of cognitive recognition.
It's not as close as I wish it would be. I don't tell her things or open up to her. I see the type of relationship my friends have with their mothers and I can definetely see what I have with mine doesn't come close to what they have with theirs.
Not a bad word to say about her I love her. She's currently looking after me while I'm ill. She's been through some shitty stuff but she always gets through it and I just want her to be happy. She has a lot going for her 👩👧❤️
I just fuckin hate my mom !! MORE THAT ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD!! I can not tell her anyyyything !! Like nothingggg !! Every time i wanna talk to her she starts yelling at me and treating me like shit i just hate her so much
It is just okay. We are not super close in the sense that I can open up to her like I do with my closest friends but we are still fine and she is still always there for me whenever I need support while keeping a certain distance at the same time.
When I was in my younger teen years we definitely clashed a lot. I told her to her face that I didn't like her. But now that I'm older it's significantly improved. She has her moments of course and she frustrates me but I still love her
my relationship is good, I can call/talk or visit whenever. I do have some issues with my mom though. 1. she has no empathy 2. she is judgmental 3. she isn't very encouraging but kind of negative and a downer...
My mom and I are both very stubborn. We used to bump heads all the time and have screaming matches, but as I got older, I realized that we are very much alike and she is the most selfless person I know.
The older I've gotten, the better our relationship has gotten. We hang out, go to the movies, go shopping, go on road trips.. I love our relationship now. We're even going to California this summer lol.
My relationship with my mom sucks. I want to be closer to her but for some reason she avoids me. I feel like a part of me is missing and it sucks to live like that.
It’s good. I love her so much. Sometimes I wish I could talk to her though. In that sense we aren’t very close but all around we have a good relationship.
With my mom, kind of okay/good I think. She gets angry when I don't see a reason to. I'm not a very touchy-feely person so I don't hug anyone very much at all.
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Guys don't 'feel' - that's a female thought process.
Mom is a narcissist egotist. It's ALL about her. She never did understand her only son, which is such a shame. Contact is extremely limited. She's just not welcome.
You can pick your friends, but you inherit your relatives. Neither one is deserving of your time if they are toxic, including your parents or children.
She’s egocentric and selfish. I’ve never really gotten along with her. She only thinks about herself, and has treated my dad selfishly. I would call it emotional/mental abuse, but he would never say anything like that of course.
I love both my parents but they also frustrate me. My farther has a martyr complex and my mother also slightly has it too. I can't tell you how frustrating and draining it is when they're always trying to play the victim instead of just simply taking responsibility!!
I used to have such a great relationship with her when i was a kid, although for the past 2 years she has had depression and mental unwellness, which has led to her being an awful mother. Treating my dad, sister and i like absoloute shit. My dad has pretty much single patented me, whilst getting shit from my mum the whole time. She is so emotionally draining. I dont even want to be around her
It breaks my heart that i don't even want a relationship with her
When I was very young it was really good.
Unfortunately because of overall deteriorating relationship between her and my father she became extremely stressed, which led her to yell often, quickly become upset, etc.
Now However she is generally quite good but I'm still uneasy at times
My Mom had six children. .. was (is) an unbelievable Mother/person! She fell pregnant with me at 14 and dealt with all that followed. Shebeas living, kind, supportive and encouraging. She now lies in hospital with dementia and drifts in and out of cognitive recognition.
It's not as close as I wish it would be. I don't tell her things or open up to her. I see the type of relationship my friends have with their mothers and I can definetely see what I have with mine doesn't come close to what they have with theirs.
Not a bad word to say about her I love her. She's currently looking after me while I'm ill. She's been through some shitty stuff but she always gets through it and I just want her to be happy. She has a lot going for her 👩👧❤️
I just fuckin hate my mom !! MORE THAT ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD!! I can not tell her anyyyything !! Like nothingggg !! Every time i wanna talk to her she starts yelling at me and treating me like shit i just hate her so much
It is just okay. We are not super close in the sense that I can open up to her like I do with my closest friends but we are still fine and she is still always there for me whenever I need support while keeping a certain distance at the same time.
When I was in my younger teen years we definitely clashed a lot. I told her to her face that I didn't like her. But now that I'm older it's significantly improved. She has her moments of course and she frustrates me but I still love her
my relationship is good, I can call/talk or visit whenever.
I do have some issues with my mom though.
1. she has no empathy
2. she is judgmental
3. she isn't very encouraging but kind of negative and a downer...
My mom and I are both very stubborn. We used to bump heads all the time and have screaming matches, but as I got older, I realized that we are very much alike and she is the most selfless person I know.
The older I've gotten, the better our relationship has gotten. We hang out, go to the movies, go shopping, go on road trips.. I love our relationship now. We're even going to California this summer lol.
My relationship with my mom sucks. I want to be closer to her but for some reason she avoids me. I feel like a part of me is missing and it sucks to live like that.
As a person, I think she has good intentions, but she is immature and irresponsible.
I appreciate everything that she has done for me, but I don't have a particularly strong bond with her.
#Me.
It’s good. I love her so much. Sometimes I wish I could talk to her though. In that sense we aren’t very close but all around we have a good relationship.
It is what it is
We fight then we’re friends and then enemies. I’m so confused about my relationship with my mom honestly.
I wish it was a bit better. Or basically I wish she was more understanding. If she had that then we would be solid good.
With my mom, kind of okay/good I think. She gets angry when I don't see a reason to. I'm not a very touchy-feely person so I don't hug anyone very much at all.