How to tell grandparent about me getting nose pierced?

so next month I will be going and getting my nose pierced. obviously anyone out there who pierces up will deal with at least a few family members who are against it and what not. in my case, a lot of my family just lives a state away so I see them like every few months. and with most of the family I'm just gonna show up with the nose ring with no warning next time I go.

but I do have one grandparent that I'm very close to that I do wanna tell beforehand that i'm gonna get my nose pierced. problem is, she got pissed the 2 times I got my ears pierced. she got more pissed at my mom though. she did get over it eventually, but back then I told her I wouldn't get anymore piercings, but she predicted I would. she was right.

I want to soon go ahead and tell her before it happens instead of giving her a heart attack when I show up at her place with it. if I were to just show up with it I'm sure I wouldn't hear the end of it. I've been putting this off for awhile though, since like before Thanksgiving.

how should I tell her?

how to tell grandparent about me getting nose pierced?
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alright people, for those who say I shouldn't get it pierced. I'm still going to do it. I know that its like I'm rebelling against the family, but hell it isn't like they are the ones who gave birth to me. my parents are fine with it all. I would be a completely different person than I am right now if I was like my grandparents. I kinda feel better being the weird one in the family, being myself but still close to them. so I'm going to sit there and take all the hate I can till they cool down.
How to tell grandparent about me getting nose pierced?
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