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Spanked? No. Thats an understatement. I got my ass whooped.
By whom?
My mom then my dad
Yup lol but mostly by my dad. My mom would scream more than spank me. But it is what it is. Taught me respect and to stop being a brat.
Yes. I was born and raised in the eighties and spanking was not considered child abuse back then.
Mom or dad?
My mom. Dad took off when I was a baby.
Are you gonna discipline your kids the same way?
If I have a kid yes, but only one spanking and only when the kid misbehaves. When I got spanked it was only for behaviors such as lying, talking back or defiance.
I wasn't raised in the eighties, but I never saw it as child abuse at all.
I am going to have my children disciplined similarly when I have them. Not by myself, of course. My future husband is expected to do that.
Yes I did when I deserved it. But only a few times cuz that's all it took for me to realize I needed to be good.
I deserved my punishment.
No blame.
No regrets.
And who's the punisher?
Usually my mom because my dad was at work when my "crime" came to light.
If my mom was unavailable whenever I did a terrible act, my dad would be the punisher.
They believed one spanking was enough and that it's unnecessary to do a "tag team" on me or my brothers, who also agree that our spanking was warranted.
If you have kids do you use spanking?
I don't have kids.
I can't have any. :(
If I do, I'll try my best to avoid spanking her/him/them just like my parents tried their best to avoid. That doesn't mean I would not employ the method at all.
I anderstand, sorry about that you'd be nice mom
:) Thank you.
Spanked lol. I was beat and locked in kennel cages. If I had to go to the hospital for stitches because of fighting, I got beat again after.
Mom or dad?
Both... But I am glad I grew up that way.
Not just spanks. Caned. A lot. But I totally love them both for shaping me up properly and not spoiling me.
No I was too good to get spanked. My parents spanked my siblings but i was smart enough to never get in trouble 😇😇😇😇
I was kinda the same lol.
Yes I did, very rarely but up until I was about 10 9 yes !
Mom or dad? And are you gonna spank your children?
Yes. I was a very good kid, though, so I didn’t get spankings more than a handful of times in my childhood.
Oh yeah, with belts, wooden spoons, and hands. Also got things thrown at me.
Mom or dad
Father
Usually wooden spoon and throwing things is mothers weapon
My mother was very passive and quiet. By throwing things I don't mean light things either lol
Yeah I see, rough childhood
My dad tried to spank me once and I hit him back. I was a bad ass little kid 🤦♀️
Wow😂 how old were you?
Second grade 🤷♀️
and that worked?
It’s gonna be a no from me dog.
ahhh I feel better now was going to be bummed if that's all it took lol
Yup, but it as a kid you regarded it as the "Sword of Damocles", you knew it was there and the conditions that would lead to you backside being tanned, you quickly learned where the line was and the results of crossing it,
Not really I don't remember much maybe one tap but was playful. I remember one time I think she tried to hit me with a belt but was just faking it to scare me I don't think she could actually bring herself to actually do it here in the UK.
Hitting my kid no never the only exception would be extreme circumstances when they're 18+.
Yes, bouth my mum and dad did when i missed behaved after a while i was to scared to do anything bad
Will you spank your children?
Probably if they miss behave. It's the only way in difficult situations unfortunately but I see so many people my age now whose parents weren't that way with them and they're all spoilt trouble makers now
Yeah I used to get a smack in the head when I was being a little prick.
I don't see why everyone freaks out about it these days.
By mother or father?
It was always my mum. My dad never did it.
I think spankings are better punishment than smack the back head
I don't agree. But I associate spanking with sex so rhe idea of spanking a kid just seems super fucked up to me.
I know it's obviously not the same thing. I think it's just the word that weirds me out.
Lol not at all, I think smacking the head can be dangerous specially to a kid
Nah I got them all the time and I'm only kind of messed up xD
😂😂😂
It wasn't a hard smack, like they weren't smashing glass bottles over my head or anything. Totally mostly harmless 👍
I see
How were you punished for stuff as a kid?
Spankings most of the time
Fair enough. Sometimes they made me write essays xD that was my least favourite
I'd love that kind of punishment 😆
It's so bad. Like "write 3 pages about why it's not okay to throw a football at your sister." Like how do you even get 3 pages out of that? Haha
Lol😂😂😂
when your "spanking" includes your father's thin leather belt, I guarantee you'll stop and think at least. you know there's retribution for your disobedience, you have to decide of it's worth it.
I learned nothing other than it's unfair, savage, brute, disgusting and unjustified.
I never professed to having learned anything, merely that it made me consider the consequence and weather I was willing to pay that price.
If you were chased with a belt for not knowing how to operate a remote control correctly, what exactly are the consequences to consider there?
I got the shit whipped out of me as a kid and a teenager too, first of all most of the times it was due to something wrong, was it sometimes exaggerated punishment? Yes but I'm son a Latin American mom so hit your kids is not that unusual.
I only got spanked twice growing up, both times it was from my dad
Yep I got in trouble the most of all my siblings 😂 half of it wasn't even me either.