Girlfriend’s friend is trying to invite herself on our vacation. Do I have a right to put my foot down? (Page 2)

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She’s a very sweet girl, and I like her, but I also think she crosses the line from time to time. She consistently tries to include herself in our “couple” plans. Basically, I bought my girlfriend and I tickets to Disneyland. She’s never been, and she’s always wanted to go, so as a birthday present I bought two tickets for us to go to Disney for 4 days. I told her friend what I was doing and her friend agreed it was a great idea, but then began saying things like “we’ll have so much fun there.” Essentially saying she wanted to be included in the trip. Which I wasn’t crazy about, but I figured I’d let my girlfriend handle it.  Once I gave my girlfriend the gift, I told her about this friend inviting herself and my girlfriend originally felt how I did— that we didn’t want her to come. She said she just wouldn’t mention we were going until the last minute. Well now our plans are set, we are going with another couple, and a couple weeks ago my girlfriend told her friend when we were going!  I don’t want her to come because 1.) She’ll want to stay with us, and I don’t want to share a hotel room or AirBnB with her. 2.) When it comes to rides, most are designed for two to ride together, which means one of us will be left out. 3.) This girl is not the “quiet, go with the flow” type. If there’s something she wants to do that conflicts with our plans she’s gonna want to do it and at the very least drag my girlfriend with her.  My girlfriend seemed to understand, but I think she’s hoping this friend will just not ask again instead of telling her it’s our vacation.  This girl has no problem telling my girlfriend she’s not included in plans when she has a boyfriend or is seeing someone.

Jambery23 · Answer

Mate, say no to her. If your girlfriend says anything about it just explain to her that you want the vacation to be just the 2 of you so you can give her all the attention

iFarted · Answer

Hey, its like you have 2 girlfriends and theyre bffs. 🖐

ChasingWisdom · Answer

I dont need to read the whole story😂 tell her to find her own relationship so they can make their own plans🤷‍♂️

Anonymous · Answer

Of course you can put your foot down. If you don't do it, she's gonna come with you so you better get to it, hun.

Guanfei · Answer

"Friend" is trying to dick your girl, that's what it is.

ChefCurry · Answer

Lmao you spent money on your girlfriend. What a joke.

jimmy2 · Answer

Well kick her ass to the curb if your girlfriend is the one for you or if she not she gling to have a 3some with you two.

Anonymous · Answer

You damn right, A & B conversation she needs to C her way out.

Harmseygrace · Answer

Yeah you do. She sounds annoying and really rude.

Anonymous · Answer

Dont tell that friend whenever you guys go on a date or somewhere

Neeceeb7 · Answer

Yes it's your vacation you have a say who is going

AdHdSqUiRrEl · Answer

Oh hell nah. Speak up! You have the right!

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Smh, she sounds immature and needy

clampfan101 · Answer

Of course you do. Just try not to be harsh.

Jesse0 · Answer

Don't let your girl say no, you do it.

H0LLYW00DH0GAN · Answer

You need to tell her flat out no

Cask23 · Answer

Could open the door for a three-some, just saying.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Of course. Who wouldn't want another honeymoon?

Jennifer_32 · Answer

Hell yes, put the foot down right now.

BeHappy1985 · Answer

Well why not try to make it a threesome?

imgaynoway · Answer

If u don't stop it now unever will

PantySniffer6969 · Answer

Give her the 3some that she wants.

noelic · Answer

Boundaries fool!

Benny_Oakley · Answer

Put your foot down, it’s y’all a trip not hers

NickiB · Answer

I think u do

Dsg1193 · Answer

Oh yeah

Sabretooth · Answer

You need to talk

Stackattack · Answer

No lol

bruce1979 · Answer

Yes.

Nachowedgie · Answer

Obviously

AsianTraveler · Answer

Hell yes you do

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