I don't think so. I think its a beautiful thing. I know this guy who is always in the best mood. Super happy and genuinely seems pleased to just be alive and talk to anyone. At first it threw me off. Now I think he has to be the coolest guy I've ever met. Ya maybe he should be careful to not be like that around the wrong person. Other than that though he is the absolute fucking bomb.
No I dont think so I think it's harder to be nice then mean. At least I figure since so many choose to be mean. I think its harder to look for something in someone. And in think being mean is usually hiding your own insecurities and weakness
No. If anything in this shitty society that corrupts everyone into thinking that only by walking on others at least occasionally will get you ahead in life, not conforming to that standard and being compassionate and doing what feels right throughout your life is a sign of strength. In my opinion, the kindest people are the strongest people.
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It's actually a sign of strength, just like it says in free-ebooks' "Are Women the Stronger Sex" - though people often mistaken it as a sign of weakness.
Sometimes it's very hard to be nice to certain people, especially when they're not nice to us/when they take advantage of us.
Yes and No. If you're always pleasing people for example then yes, but if you have those moments of strongly saying no to certain things no. a lot people have different kinds of being too nice, some who are super insecure wanting validation etc and some who're just genuinely good around others but have some standards for themselves and don't care about always pleasing everyone
If you stop being yourself you take away from yourself the good when somebody takes advantage of you just cut them off and keep going you can let nobody change who you are or how you are definitely have to find other friends
You being nice shows you as nice person but you letting them take advantage of your niceness shows your weak personality. But you know, we don't mind being taken advantage by specifics persons (significant one or real friends or family) but if every person that you met start to take your advantage of your, shows your weak personality. So the weak personality is you letting them take advantage of you not the one you being nice.
No, if you are genuenly noce it is a sign of a strong personality, because you are more prone to getting hurt. If you stay a good person regardless of. life's burdens it means you are strong.
Depends on what you consider nice. Submissiveness is a sign of intended masochism or depression. Passive aggression is hilarious way to give people what they want without compromising much. I tell ya though if you think you're a nice person eventually you're gonna start thinking the world owes you something or you aren't good enough. Maybe it's time to get some dirt on your hands? Nobody EVER has fun being nice.
'He is so polite. Yes, he always carries a biscuit for Cerberus and is so timid that he thinks everyone is Cerberus, even you and I. That is his politeness.
If our society was not that fucked up, it would not be one. It's not one for me, kindness is a very honorable trait in my eyes and I really appreciate it.
Everyone should be nice. But it shouldn't be what defines you. Its like a resturaunt should serve food that doesn't make you sick. Its just the baseline to be expected
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I don't think so. I think its a beautiful thing. I know this guy who is always in the best mood. Super happy and genuinely seems pleased to just be alive and talk to anyone. At first it threw me off. Now I think he has to be the coolest guy I've ever met. Ya maybe he should be careful to not be like that around the wrong person. Other than that though he is the absolute fucking bomb.
No I dont think so I think it's harder to be nice then mean. At least I figure since so many choose to be mean. I think its harder to look for something in someone. And in think being mean is usually hiding your own insecurities and weakness
No. If anything in this shitty society that corrupts everyone into thinking that only by walking on others at least occasionally will get you ahead in life, not conforming to that standard and being compassionate and doing what feels right throughout your life is a sign of strength. In my opinion, the kindest people are the strongest people.
It's actually a sign of strength, just like it says in free-ebooks' "Are Women the Stronger Sex" - though people often mistaken it as a sign of weakness.
Sometimes it's very hard to be nice to certain people, especially when they're not nice to us/when they take advantage of us.
Yes and No. If you're always pleasing people for example then yes, but if you have those moments of strongly saying no to certain things no.
a lot people have different kinds of being too nice, some who are super insecure wanting validation etc and some who're just genuinely good around others but have some standards for themselves and don't care about always pleasing everyone
No, just means you're a nice person at heart. Just have to becareful to not let others take advantage of it.
If you stop being yourself you take away from yourself the good when somebody takes advantage of you just cut them off and keep going you can let nobody change who you are or how you are definitely have to find other friends
Nope! If anything, it’s a sign of a strong one! It’s easy to be mean; much harder and requires more effort and patience to be nice
You being nice shows you as nice person but you letting them take advantage of your niceness shows your weak personality. But you know, we don't mind being taken advantage by specifics persons (significant one or real friends or family) but if every person that you met start to take your advantage of your, shows your weak personality. So the weak personality is you letting them take advantage of you not the one you being nice.
Well if you're a people pleaser, then sure it can be but otherwise no. Most people like nice people over rude or intimidating people.
No, if you are genuenly noce it is a sign of a strong personality, because you are more prone to getting hurt. If you stay a good person regardless of. life's burdens it means you are strong.
Depends on what you consider nice. Submissiveness is a sign of intended masochism or depression. Passive aggression is hilarious way to give people what they want without compromising much. I tell ya though if you think you're a nice person eventually you're gonna start thinking the world owes you something or you aren't good enough. Maybe it's time to get some dirt on your hands? Nobody EVER has fun being nice.
I think nice is a bad thing to be. Nice is almost pandering in my eyes.
Kind however is a great trait its about being nice when its needed and shaking them into sense when its necessary.
Nice people avoid conflict but sometimes its necessary thats where the weakness comes in.
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'He is so polite. Yes, he always carries a biscuit for Cerberus and is so timid that he thinks everyone is Cerberus, even you and I. That is his politeness.
- F. Wilhelm Nietzsche
Yes people do take advantage of overly nice people but I find that people are nicer to them back.
I dont think it niceness that they take advantage of but the inability to stand up for yourself
To an extent, it is. But if you know your boundaries and know when to place your foot down, you should be good.
No, because people do take advantage, and that makes you stronger
If our society was not that fucked up, it would not be one. It's not one for me, kindness is a very honorable trait in my eyes and I really appreciate it.
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Everyone should be nice. But it shouldn't be what defines you. Its like a resturaunt should serve food that doesn't make you sick. Its just the baseline to be expected