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Why can't my aunt just leave me ALONE?

Look I love her with all my heart and I love spending time with her, but sometimes she calls me too much. Ever since my mom left, she stepped in to help us, especially with me with puberty and ended up teaching me how to be a woman which is a good thing since my deadbeat mother refuses to have anything to do with us. She comes over a lot. I mean she don't call sometimes when she is coming over. She comes to see her com which is what any mother should do but she mostly comes to see me. I don't mind but every day. During Christmas break she kept calling me to see what I was doing. She even said, "Why don't you spend Chrismas Eve with me? Spend the night. So you don't have to be home alone. My oldest brother was out of town with his wife and kids, dad was at work, my cousin (her son) was out of town with his girl, other cousin was working. My two other brothers were out somewhere. I didn't really wanna spend the night with her, but I didn't wanna be rude. She knows I'm a homebody so she always tries to keep me out of the house. My dad apriciates what's she's doing and I need a female role model. He said it's been hard since mom left and I've been lost without a mother and I need to realize that my aunt had been more it be mother to me than my mom was. My aunt said I'm very special to her. I hope it not because I'm autistic. She said she was heartbroken for us when mom left us and especially for me since I'm a female and I need a mother. I appreciate what she did for me I really do but I wish she wouldn't call me so much. She doesn't do that to her other nieces (I don't know). She admired that I'm her favorite niece. I never knew that. What her other nieces think? She seems to prefer me over her other nieces. Am I a bitch?
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My friend called me an ungrateful bitch and I'm too stubborn to see that my aunt has been MOM and I'm gossiping about her behind her back saying that. She told me my mom made it clear she doesn't want me to stop texting out for her. Since I'm going to stop talking s*** about my aunt and appreciate her and she's been mom.
Why can't my aunt just leave me ALONE?
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