Why can't my aunt just leave me ALONE?

[MotherlessDaughter]

Look I love her with all my heart and I love spending time with her, but sometimes she calls me too much. Ever since my mom left, she stepped in to help us, especially with me with puberty and ended up teaching me how to be a woman which is a good thing since my deadbeat mother refuses to have anything to do with us. She comes over a lot. I mean she don't call sometimes when she is coming over. She comes to see her com which is what any mother should do but she mostly comes to see me. I don't mind but every day. During Christmas break she kept calling me to see what I was doing. She even said, "Why don't you spend Chrismas Eve with me? Spend the night. So you don't have to be home alone. My oldest brother was out of town with his wife and kids, dad was at work, my cousin (her son) was out of town with his girl, other cousin was working. My two other brothers were out somewhere. I didn't really wanna spend the night with her, but I didn't wanna be rude. She knows I'm a homebody so she always tries to keep me out of the house. My dad apriciates what's she's doing and I need a female role model. He said it's been hard since mom left and I've been lost without a mother and I need to realize that my aunt had been more it be mother to me than my mom was. My aunt said I'm very special to her. I hope it not because I'm autistic. She said she was heartbroken for us when mom left us and especially for me since I'm a female and I need a mother. I appreciate what she did for me I really do but I wish she wouldn't call me so much. She doesn't do that to her other nieces (I don't know). She admired that I'm her favorite niece. I never knew that. What her other nieces think? She seems to prefer me over her other nieces. Am I a bitch?

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My friend called me an ungrateful bitch and I'm too stubborn to see that my aunt has been MOM and I'm gossiping about her behind her back saying that. She told me my mom made it clear she doesn't want me to stop texting out for her. Since I'm going to stop talking s*** about my aunt and appreciate her and she's been mom.

[Anonymous]

You should be grateful that you have such a wonderful and caring aunt. Not everyone has that. I get to see my aunty like once every two months, I would love to have a relationship like this with her. Don’t complain.

[MotherlessDaughter]

I am grateful for her, and my friend also, that I need to stop complaining and quit chasing after the woman that didn't want me. It's like you're chasing after a woman that didn't want me and pushing me away the other woman that actually cares about me. Shuffle told me not everyone has loving families and I should stop being so selfish and appreciate her. She told me she wished she had an aunt like I did and I'm a very lucky girl.

[MotherlessDaughter]

I meant she told me

[Opinion Owner]

I agree with her, you have an amazing woman who’s stepping in to help you out and care for you.

[MotherlessDaughter]

She is like another mother to me but she'll NEVER be my mom.

[Opinion Owner]

Of course, but she’s still doing her best for you. Appreciate that. I grew up without a father and my granddad filled that role for me. I could never complain about everything he’s done for me.

[MotherlessDaughter]

Well that's good at least your grandfather helped you and you had a father figure. I mean I do appreciate my aunt for stepping in and filling that role as a mother because she's been more of a mother to me than my real mother. Mama really missed out on a lot. The one thing that was messed up instead she went to my brother's graduation and she never came to mine.

[wittymilf]

I adopted my niece because she hS a shit mum. I’m her mum now.

[MotherlessDaughter]

Your niece is a hS a shit mom?
In English please

[wittymilf]

Really?

[wittymilf]

Just pop an a in has and all good.

[MotherlessDaughter]

Sorry I didn't understand what you were saying. I wasn't saying it to be offencive I was just trying to understand what you're saying.

[wittymilf]

:) all good no offence I’m just fluent in typos so I hardly notice