Is it wrong to sleep with a friend?

Question

Totally non-romantically, of course... 😏 Just sleeping. In a bed. With your friend. For purely pragmatic reasons of course, only 1 bed and cold outside of the bed.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you're in a relationship and your friend is of the opposite sex, yes. That's just overstepping boundaries, even if there's nothing sexual involved.

Otherwise, no. If your friend is of the opposite sex, you could risk giving off the wrong idea, though. I've done it (never while in a relationship, of course), but only with my best friend since childhood who is like a brother to me.

Some people are not comfortable sharing a bed with friends even of the same sex, but it really depends on what you're comfortable with.

MissDawn7961 · Accepted Answer

the best person for you to sleep with is your spouse or your same sex relative ! for sleeping with a friend could give that friend the wrong idea about you ! like you want to have sex with them ( and you do not ) or marry them ( and you do not ) ! if you sleep with them but do not have feelings for them then you could break their heart and they may decide to do something to you , a loved one or your property as a way of getting back at you for your leading them on

princessnan · Accepted Answer

Ugh, being Christian has nothing to do with it if you have a partner it's all about trust. I've slept in a friends bed with him before because there was like 5 of us over. If you feel weird if because your not that good of friends or you have feelings for them.

LesterJester · Accepted Answer

No issues. Do what you gotta do. Been there a few times in the past with guy and girl friends.

To avoid awkward moments, we usually had one of us sleeping normally and the other with the head at the foot of the bed so our faces weren't right at each other.

Just make sure you don't wake up in a 69 position.

With the female friends, we usually slept normally, but guy friends we had the rule of feet to face.

Drumlin2001 · Accepted Answer

I was put i a situation in a hotel room of being faced with sharing a bed with brother in law. I like the guy but neother of us were comfortable with it. The hotel mangaged to sort a matress and blanket for me on the floor.
If you're both comfortable with it and set out ground rules from the start, sure. You're consenting adults, do what you want

aaronbw · Answer

I've done it. Is it that hard for some people to just keep their hands to themselves? In my experience, if people found me attractive enough, they make it known so for the most part I dont believe I send off any wrong signals.

People worry too much about sex when it comes to things like this in my opinion. It's just another human being in a bed, doesn't mean sex is gonna happen... to me its no different than platonic cuddling in cold weather.

tinekuka · Answer

It depend with that friend u have? Including the way u used to talk with, how do u respect each other but u if I see we used to play on crazy jokes or talking our how good is our appearance, mhhhh I can't especially for my opposite sex because i know what will happen next!!! Hahahaha I can't

anon1903 · Answer

not really if you can keep your hands off each other and no dumb mistakes happen. It solely depends on your friend tho, some friends are real ass clingers (I'd one in highschool, she use to slap my booty)

markscott · Answer

It it's cold, one bed, and you need to keep warm, then just sleeping with a friend is OK. However, that is an unlikely scenario, as homes/apartments are usually heated.

Mister_E_Alaska · Answer

Would you sleep with someone of the same sex or your sister?  That's you're answer.

Kreneman · Answer

For me, as long as I'm single, I don't mind sleeping in the same bed with my single women friends plus I use to do that back in my college days, and I enjoyed those moments.

brutally_honest_guy · Answer

Its okay If you are single. However, in a relationship, if you are okay with your partner doing the same then its okay. Or else its a big no.

tara987 · Answer

I love sleeping with my best friend. We sleep over each other's places once a week or two. I love her and it's fun to sleep with her also.

Anonymous · Answer

No? I've slept over with guy friends and it's been purely platonic. Why would sharing the bed platonically be wrong ever? It wouldn't even be wrong if it wasn't platonic as long as it's okay with you both.

October808 · Answer

I shared beds with many friends while following rock bands around North America. I didn't have sex with any of them. A lot of them were female. In hindsight... LOL.

the-valkyria · Answer

Yeah. Nothing wrong with it. I shared a bed with my buddy when they needed it, and same with a female friend. Nothing wrong with it.

Stingray444 · Answer

It depends on the intentions of why you are in the first

jmb9030 · Answer

If you're already in a relationship and you sleep with your female/ male friend then yes it's wrong... Otherwise hell no as long as they don't get clingy after you give it up

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Of the same gender? Sure! I stay on my side and he stays on his side. Opposite gender? Probably not the best idea. Thinks could happen when people are horny and half-asleep.

MsElizabeth96 · Answer

Well I'd say no because I'm against sex before marriage

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

It's not wrong. I can tell a person I slept with a hooker and they'd never think it was actual sleeping but assume it was sex. How did sleeping get used to mean have sex?

HeavenSentInstrument · Answer

This is why recliners were invented. Couches. Sleeping bags. Pallets on the floor. Cots.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

I have had female friends fall asleep on my couch with me. Nothing happens other than sleep. No interest in messing with friends.

Daniel3035 · Answer

Not really. While your friends biologically your also mates. No matter what there will be that attraction between you two at some levels unless gay.

Coryn-of-the-year · Answer

I don't think I could handle it. A guy? Totally weird. A girl? Totally weird, for a whole nother reason.

broncobryan · Answer

It's not about what we think. If you're married or have a girlfriend, I'm sure they wouldn't approve.

beebella · Answer

It's not wrong to sleep with a friend.

Wnt2PlzU · Answer

Depends... do u have a boyfriend? If you do... I would say it's not cool, but if you don't... Sure.

lsjr16 · Answer

It is between you and the friend alongs you both have an understand of what happens after you hookup

nik4play · Answer

Its weird, there must be a sofa somewhere! friends with benifits completely different

foxbbeast · Answer

No its not wrong as long as they r not related to u

JP_Man · Answer

I would say yes unless you can't stop yourself from getting all crazy about her

sicklyclean · Answer

Sure as long as your already in a real relationship

Anonymous · Answer

Of course not. It's like having a sleepover

Twalli · Answer

If you just sleep, sleep there is no problem.

CoffeeWC · Answer

I wouldn't find it wrong if it's unavoidable.

Hannajenky · Answer

Not my thing but there’s nothing wrong with it

Browneye57 · Answer

Uh, no. Sleep in separate rooms, or send one home.

ssfgames13 · Answer

No sex, sure, sex even better 😉

JKingOff · Answer

No.. It's called friends with benefits.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

sleep sleep or sex sleep?

princess2525 · Answer

Nope

Pejtu · Answer

Depends is that a girl or a guy 😂😂

GoodxGuyx · Answer

Why not?

itsmearjun007 · Answer

No way... I have done many time...

laksh_292 · Answer

It's ok if u both enjoy it

MoscowMitch · Answer

Opposite sex friend, fine. Same sex friend, no.

WalterRadio · Answer

Too often.

justawhiteman · Answer

Nope

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

That’s fine.

bannacookies · Answer

Hahaha. Yeah.

Lightnight · Answer

Yes we can do it lol

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