If you're in a relationship and your friend is of the opposite sex, yes. That's just overstepping boundaries, even if there's nothing sexual involved.
Otherwise, no. If your friend is of the opposite sex, you could risk giving off the wrong idea, though. I've done it (never while in a relationship, of course), but only with my best friend since childhood who is like a brother to me.
Some people are not comfortable sharing a bed with friends even of the same sex, but it really depends on what you're comfortable with.
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the best person for you to sleep with is your spouse or your same sex relative ! for sleeping with a friend could give that friend the wrong idea about you ! like you want to have sex with them ( and you do not ) or marry them ( and you do not ) ! if you sleep with them but do not have feelings for them then you could break their heart and they may decide to do something to you , a loved one or your property as a way of getting back at you for your leading them on
Ugh, being Christian has nothing to do with it if you have a partner it's all about trust. I've slept in a friends bed with him before because there was like 5 of us over. If you feel weird if because your not that good of friends or you have feelings for them.
No issues. Do what you gotta do. Been there a few times in the past with guy and girl friends.
To avoid awkward moments, we usually had one of us sleeping normally and the other with the head at the foot of the bed so our faces weren't right at each other.
Just make sure you don't wake up in a 69 position.
With the female friends, we usually slept normally, but guy friends we had the rule of feet to face.
I was put i a situation in a hotel room of being faced with sharing a bed with brother in law. I like the guy but neother of us were comfortable with it. The hotel mangaged to sort a matress and blanket for me on the floor.
If you're both comfortable with it and set out ground rules from the start, sure. You're consenting adults, do what you want
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I've done it. Is it that hard for some people to just keep their hands to themselves? In my experience, if people found me attractive enough, they make it known so for the most part I dont believe I send off any wrong signals.
People worry too much about sex when it comes to things like this in my opinion. It's just another human being in a bed, doesn't mean sex is gonna happen... to me its no different than platonic cuddling in cold weather.It depend with that friend u have? Including the way u used to talk with, how do u respect each other but u if I see we used to play on crazy jokes or talking our how good is our appearance, mhhhh I can't especially for my opposite sex because i know what will happen next!!! Hahahaha I can't
not really if you can keep your hands off each other and no dumb mistakes happen. It solely depends on your friend tho, some friends are real ass clingers (I'd one in highschool, she use to slap my booty)
It it's cold, one bed, and you need to keep warm, then just sleeping with a friend is OK. However, that is an unlikely scenario, as homes/apartments are usually heated.
Would you sleep with someone of the same sex or your sister?
That's you're answer.For me, as long as I'm single, I don't mind sleeping in the same bed with my single women friends plus I use to do that back in my college days, and I enjoyed those moments.
Its okay If you are single. However, in a relationship, if you are okay with your partner doing the same then its okay.
Or else its a big no.I love sleeping with my best friend. We sleep over each other's places once a week or two. I love her and it's fun to sleep with her also.
No? I've slept over with guy friends and it's been purely platonic. Why would sharing the bed platonically be wrong ever? It wouldn't even be wrong if it wasn't platonic as long as it's okay with you both.
I shared beds with many friends while following rock bands around North America. I didn't have sex with any of them. A lot of them were female. In hindsight... LOL.
Yeah. Nothing wrong with it. I shared a bed with my buddy when they needed it, and same with a female friend. Nothing wrong with it.
It depends on the intentions of why you are in the first
If you're already in a relationship and you sleep with your female/ male friend then yes it's wrong... Otherwise hell no as long as they don't get clingy after you give it up
Of the same gender? Sure! I stay on my side and he stays on his side.
Opposite gender? Probably not the best idea. Thinks could happen when people are horny and half-asleep.Well I'd say no because I'm against sex before marriage
It's not wrong. I can tell a person I slept with a hooker and they'd never think it was actual sleeping but assume it was sex. How did sleeping get used to mean have sex?
This is why recliners were invented.
Couches.
Sleeping bags.
Pallets on the floor.
Cots.I have had female friends fall asleep on my couch with me. Nothing happens other than sleep. No interest in messing with friends.
Not really. While your friends biologically your also mates. No matter what there will be that attraction between you two at some levels unless gay.
I don't think I could handle it. A guy? Totally weird. A girl? Totally weird, for a whole nother reason.
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