How many people can you truly count on to be there for you if you're in need?

[mistixs]

I have no idea

Zero

One

Two

Three

Four

Five or more

[Kaneki05]

One if you count a very long distance bestie. Which i do and don't count just cause they cannot actaully be here here if you know what i mean.
otherwise i have no one well i do have my childhood friend who is only a city away but he is just a drinking buddie and i only see him about once every month to see a band.

[curioussheikh]

I don't have such a person in my life and I don't think I've ever had one, but I don't think that it is necessary to have such a person in your life, once I got used to the roughness of life than loneliness stopped having as much of a negative effect on me as it once used to have

[Moonchild714]

More thsn I can count, literally have dozens and dozens of people here for myself, husband, and our son. The Hosputal Staff has a Secretary scheduling Vistors for me because so many people want to be here for us. Anazing!!! Pure Love is a Gift from GOD!!!

[Moonchild714]

Thank you for MHO.

[ChgzDaniel]

My mum, my boyfriend and my cousin. You can never be 100% curtain until you need their help, but these people have been my rock. I'd be lost without them

[505error]

My parents, my brother, my boyfriend and his parents. That makes 5. Maybe there are even more who I can count on, but these are the ones that I know will truly be there for me.

[Elliegirl]

I’m fortunate to have several I can count on to be there for me. My parents, my husband, my brother, and my best friend. My sister is usually there, but I can’t count on her every time since she doesn’t live close enough to always be available.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Other than myself? Less than a handful. Which is kind of sad thinking about it.

It's hard to find reliable people nowadays! Even my closest friends aren't always there when I need them.

[Guardian45]

Trudat

[TheFirstMan]

Sometimes people act like their want to help but the result is worse, that was a poker face. Seriously, no one really wanted to help.
people prefer 1=1
(u help me, I help u)

#only parents want to help but I don't think so when we grow and the old. We r the one who help them. Time/era/tech all is changing. No blame if their do mistakes.

[mimi051998]

Only my family. I no longer trust any of my ex-friends. Only been used by people for the good that I had and they just leave my hanging no matter how nice I was. F them all🤦🏾‍♀️

[razelove]

Three people, one by my side and two across the country, other people I know here or there it is conditional. Still and all, if I call for help, I'll get it. Same with if they call me for help, I'll be on my way.

[HOAAH]

I voted 2, and i think it's my husband and my sister.

[Youryeodongsaeng]

I have no trust for anyone, whatsoever. I always deal with things myself; even if I need to seek someone.

[Guardian45]

Tough

[MannySimms]

I gave my inheritances out long ago when I was rich since I was leaving the country. So I found out the hard way.

[HawkPerception]

Girlfriend, mom, brother, dad (possibly), and that's it. I don't believe my friends would help if I was in the trench for a while. They wouldn't stretch their hand that far. But then again, I could be wrong.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Not very many, but the people I do have I am lucky to have in my life

[DeeDeeDeVour]

In order of their age:
1. Dad
2. Mom
3. Bro #1
4. Bro #2
5. Hubby

[5_AM_Oracle]

It really depends on what I need. Some people would break the law for me

[Hurlyburly]

I guess three. My mother, my boyfriend and my best friend 😊

[Statistics]

I have no family few to them all abusing me. Emotional abuse cuts to the sole of a person I can't make friends because I can't talk from it

[Moonchild714]

Have you tried Therapy specifically EMDR Therapy. We are capable of Healing from our Traumas.

[Jjpayne]

Five or more but it depends on for what reason... Because each person can help a bit differently...

[Truthatanycost]

It looks like SelenaLatina will be there for all of you.

[Supernatural_fanatic]

I thought I had a lot but it turns out I have no one 🙃

[Moonchild714]

When we have No One, we need to look inward at ourselves. Why don't you have anyone, have you pushed them all away? Look to yourself and you will find the Answers and you can begin to Heal and Build a Support System!!!

[Supernatural_fanatic]

@Moonchild714 well a lot of them have moved away physically due to employment opportunities, and the others I have distanced myself for a few days and now they want nothing to do with me

[Moonchild714]

Just because people move away doesn't mean their not there for you, there numerous ways to be supportive to someone and you don't have to be physically present...

[Supernatural_fanatic]

@Moonchild714 people get busy and unfortunately unless the bond was extremely strong to begin with, proximity plays a big role in maintaining relationships.

[Moonchild714]

So you don't have close bonds with anyone. Don't you think that is something to look into? I use to push oeople away and/or keep at arms length but I still had close bonds with a Select few people. Now I have close bonds with maybe a 100 people all various types of bonds...

[ImagineSketchy]

I've got 5 people who have my back no matter the type of shit I get into.

[Twalli]

If I need them almost all my mom's family will come. My sister, patents, girlfriend and her mom will also come if I need them. I don't typically need people though.