You cannot force someone to marry lol its not 80s and it won't leave to any good thing but they can give it fair try as living together untill they understand each other so I would provide them roof but would make them earn it and work it out, they chose to become adults early then they need to take responsibility ofcourse requires consent of each to give birth to child.
Inshort would try to fix there fuckup for the least bc it already happened so would accept it and guide both of them
Well if he doesn't want involvement in the kid's life then I'm not gonna force him. And the girl's parents can fuck off tbh. I couldn't give a fuck how traditional they are.
But I imagine he's gonna have to pay child support so he better get a job 🤣
I would have a talk with the girl parents and my son and go from there. I do not believe in forcing relationships. But this is a situation where it's best if the kid isn't born or get other parents. It's the situation men should have a right to forfeit the right as a father if the mother doesn't want to abort it. If the kid get a crappy life it's because they didn't see the situation in the right light and went ahead anyways.
I got pregnant at 17 so I'd try giving him some good advice but at the end of the day all the decisions are on him. I'm not gonna choose his life for him. I was in a bad position and had to leave my house cause of how controlling my parents were being and I definitely dont want to be that way to my kids.
I would encourage him to take full responsiblity in helping to raise their child. But I would not encourage him to marry her just because it's against her family traditions. Both are responsible for being irresponsible, but he should not be chained to her for life by marrying her.
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My son is going to marry the girl and that is the end of it. If he fails to do so he will be disowned.
I wouldn't force my son to marry anyone, but as long as he lives under my roof, he WILL take care of the child. If he didn't want to be a father, he should have kept his dick in his pants. Takes two to tango.
I would be very disappointed in him, but I would not force him to marry the girl, I would tell him to man up and be a father and work for his baby because after all her knew the consequences when he was having sex.
Give him a hard right hand slap... then laugh and say:" You are a dad now son and will rapidly understand what I've been trying to teach your hardly ever listening self haha
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He would be paying child support and he will help raise the kid and taking it on weekends or days the mom needs a break but I would not make him marry her after that I will be taking his girlfriend he cheated on out for the day for a girls day and buy her anything she wants and apologize for raising a cheater and I would stop paying for his extraxexpenses expect for the stuff he needs
If she was a virgin id make him marry her. If she's not then she's a dumb slut and got what she deserved. Id tell him to stick around for the kid as long as mom stayed in line but otherwise run. he's too young to be stuck to a crazy ass ho always causing him problems.
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They both consented though, it’s not like she seduced him.
Irrelevant. Men get better w age and women worse. If she's already a ho at 17 she's not going to be any better the rest of his life. He has the opportunity to become a man and be a great guy but he's not going to ever do it if he has some skank up his ass.
This is duty of parents of girl to advise her to use protection. Boys do not care for pregnancy of their girlfriends or one night stand girls. In your society it is not considered so serious, there are hundred thousands babies, the result of this type of relationship.
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Okay, so you as the parent wouldn't do anything? You're just going to allow your son to be a deadbeat?
Well I'm asking this question as if it would happen in the West, not in Pakistan, what would you do then? There are rules like paying for child support.
After reading the posts on here about girls (notice I didn't use women) not wanting to be on any birth control. And the one's who think Plan B is classified as primary birth control. As well as the guys not wanting to wear a condom because it takes away from his pleasure. It makes me proud of the fact that I never had kids. In my opinion there is absolutely no excuse for an unplanned pregnancy. I would tell my son you better get on your knees a pray she has an abortion.
If the girl wants to abort, she would abort, and I would tell my son to use a rubber in the future. If the girl wants to keep it, I would let my son choose between paying child support and having an active role in the kid's life.
Pretty damn pissed, he's not marrying her. What's done with the baby is out of his hands, although there's nothing to keep him in the baby's life either, should she choose not to abort it.
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You cannot force someone to marry lol its not 80s and it won't leave to any good thing but they can give it fair try as living together untill they understand each other so I would provide them roof but would make them earn it and work it out, they chose to become adults early then they need to take responsibility ofcourse requires consent of each to give birth to child.
Inshort would try to fix there fuckup for the least bc it already happened so would accept it and guide both of them
Well if he doesn't want involvement in the kid's life then I'm not gonna force him. And the girl's parents can fuck off tbh. I couldn't give a fuck how traditional they are.
But I imagine he's gonna have to pay child support so he better get a job 🤣
I would have a talk with the girl parents and my son and go from there. I do not believe in forcing relationships. But this is a situation where it's best if the kid isn't born or get other parents. It's the situation men should have a right to forfeit the right as a father if the mother doesn't want to abort it. If the kid get a crappy life it's because they didn't see the situation in the right light and went ahead anyways.
I got pregnant at 17 so I'd try giving him some good advice but at the end of the day all the decisions are on him. I'm not gonna choose his life for him. I was in a bad position and had to leave my house cause of how controlling my parents were being and I definitely dont want to be that way to my kids.
I would encourage him to take full responsiblity in helping to raise their child. But I would not encourage him to marry her just because it's against her family traditions. Both are responsible for being irresponsible, but he should not be chained to her for life by marrying her.
My son is going to marry the girl and that is the end of it. If he fails to do so he will be disowned.
Thank you!
I wouldn't force my son to marry anyone, but as long as he lives under my roof, he WILL take care of the child. If he didn't want to be a father, he should have kept his dick in his pants. Takes two to tango.
I would be very disappointed in him, but I would not force him to marry the girl, I would tell him to man up and be a father and work for his baby because after all her knew the consequences when he was having sex.
Give him a hard right hand slap... then laugh and say:" You are a dad now son and will rapidly understand what I've been trying to teach your hardly ever listening self haha
He would be paying child support and he will help raise the kid and taking it on weekends or days the mom needs a break but I would not make him marry her after that I will be taking his girlfriend he cheated on out for the day for a girls day and buy her anything she wants and apologize for raising a cheater and I would stop paying for his extraxexpenses expect for the stuff he needs
If she was a virgin id make him marry her. If she's not then she's a dumb slut and got what she deserved. Id tell him to stick around for the kid as long as mom stayed in line but otherwise run. he's too young to be stuck to a crazy ass ho always causing him problems.
They both consented though, it’s not like she seduced him.
Irrelevant. Men get better w age and women worse. If she's already a ho at 17 she's not going to be any better the rest of his life. He has the opportunity to become a man and be a great guy but he's not going to ever do it if he has some skank up his ass.
misogynistic much?
@Vonnieboo01 Exactly it goes both ways
@Vonnieboo01 I don't know how thats relevant
Suggest they put it up for adoption.
WTF is wrong with people? Or are you wanting to kill it?
Abortion is murder!!
Simple
His punishment: he made he takes care of it.
What if he says no and doesn't want to, and he's a spoiled brat by the way.
I will show him my knife collection
Either he marries her and takes care of her and their child or he's out on the street post haste.
I would do the same.
This is duty of parents of girl to advise her to use protection. Boys do not care for pregnancy of their girlfriends or one night stand girls. In your society it is not considered so serious, there are hundred thousands babies, the result of this type of relationship.
Okay, so you as the parent wouldn't do anything? You're just going to allow your son to be a deadbeat?
It's easy to say it's their fault even though you were involved as well.
Change your society rules. No morality, no respect of blood relations, only want sexual pleasure.
I never involve my self and my children. I am Muslim and from Pakistan where strictly followed society and religious rules.
Well I'm asking this question as if it would happen in the West, not in Pakistan, what would you do then? There are rules like paying for child support.
It doesn't matter what the parent allows. The court will issue and enforce a support order if the mother asks for one.
I wouldn't let him get married but he would be paying
30% of his income in child support
In Texas it's 20% for one child.
between child support for 2 im paying 35%
What state? In Texas it was 20% for one, 25% for two, 30% for three, maybe 35% for four?
I’d smack him upside the head and have a talking to him about why he was so careless
After reading the posts on here about girls (notice I didn't use women) not wanting to be on any birth control. And the one's who think Plan B is classified as primary birth control. As well as the guys not wanting to wear a condom because it takes away from his pleasure. It makes me proud of the fact that I never had kids. In my opinion there is absolutely no excuse for an unplanned pregnancy. I would tell my son you better get on your knees a pray she has an abortion.
Lol praying and abortion don’t go together
If the girl wants to abort, she would abort, and I would tell my son to use a rubber in the future. If the girl wants to keep it, I would let my son choose between paying child support and having an active role in the kid's life.
Pretty damn pissed, he's not marrying her. What's done with the baby is out of his hands, although there's nothing to keep him in the baby's life either, should she choose not to abort it.