This has happened a lot to me, especially on this trashy site. So much so that I find myself less inclined to really participate, much to others cheer I would imagine.
At the end of the day, I can only speak for my own behaviour and we just have to accept that we cannot truly rely on others.
It is the internet after all
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You can get very close to someone online, but, at least for me, it's a waste of time. It's pointless to mantain an online relation with a person you don't really know that good, and to start "knowing" somebody online , to then meet in person, is equally pointless. By the time you do that, you'll have a solid preconception of the person, which is very dangerous.
It is best to NOT take these online friendships too seriously, for that reason. You only get to know a small part of them online and not the whole person. Even if you start talking on the phone, it really isn't like in person. There are people who I correspond with on here and it is fun keeping up with them, but it isn't a real relationship.
Yeah, that's got to hurt. I would feel really upset too
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That's the crazy part is I think you can get pretty close friendship in person is way better but Depending who you are with in and how much you want that person to see who you really are I think. If you are if ur 100 % honest you like yourself and if you hsve nothing to hide and you don't try to bull shit and be someone your not I think you can get very close
Well, I once by chance met someone through the net (not through a singles site) who I became involved with to the extent she had dinner with my parents and while sitting across from them exclaimed how she was going to marry me and was excited to take our name... How’s that for close?
That's really upsetting. But the reality is that we can't just transport our feelings and problems so easily to other continent through internet. People are may here just to find some answers to their questions. Questions they will avoid to ask to their neighbours. It's really sad as it has happened to me. It seems like it's not really a community here.
Yeah same thing happened to me couple of months back, we got a long great and everything but she randomly blocks me saying she can't handle catching feelings and that was that. 🤷🏻♂️ I find it quite rude to just block someone out of the blue if you've actually gotten to know each other a bit
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I’m sorry girl. I can’t talk now, but pm me later if you wanna talk.That’s the thing with online friends, you can talk to each other almost constantly so a friendship can build up much quicker than you’d expect. But they can also completely disappear leaving you broken and hurt, like you are now.
I’m sorry you’re going through this, but you can’t let it change you. There are always other people. Stay strongIf he Cares, He will Be back and Find you. xxoo
I think you can get pretty close I've made some close friends online and am definitely better for having known them 🙂
Sorry to hear that... I lost lots of online friends for no said reason. :/ I have a good online friendship with someone I met here, though. I’ll be friends with you too, if you like. :)
You can become best friends with someone online.
And I am sorry you lost a friend. That's always very hardSorry to hear that, but from what I have seen, its a pretty common occurrence for that to happen on the internet.
Did you two ever discuss remaining in contact outside of this site, like a messenger?
That's gotta sting. Sorry to hear that happened to you. Too bad you didn't ask for a different way to contact the person.
You can get very close and I'm sorry that your going through this. Maybe they'll come back. If you need to talk just him me up.
Maybe sext and share pics through Imgur links. thats the most close I've got with a girl online here. She sends me the links of the undies she wears.
Yeah it happens here. That's why I like people to share whatsApp
From what I've seen, this knucklehead is probably creepin you with another account
Sometimes they come back. One person I was talking to reactivated their account and another made a new one. However a third person recreated their account and ignored me. So you really never know.
Well, I've felt in love with a girl I've met online. For 5 years.
I'm at a point that if I lose a friend I'm still depressed either way. But if I gain a friend nothing's going to change
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