Why do girls have a problem with me being very arrogant when there just as much as i?

[Anonymous]

I'm not a great looking guy nor am I natural charmer but I do have a natural gift of being very strategic & methodical in just about anything I put my mind into

I'm very disciplined in my day to day life & never fail to keep any promises regardless & in general I'm a pretty cunaving type of I need to be

Many gals who are just as arrogant for their own personal reasons have an issue with my own arrogance

We have no quarall with each other

[Anonymous]

I am arrogant. Which evidently is when your confidence crosses some magical line and becomes off-putting. But I am better than most people at most of life’s major goals: wealth, happiness, quality spousal relationship, worldly, a good friend when the chips are down, co-created a good family, and smart educated well-adjusted wealthy for their age children. I am happy with my achievements and I guess those people that don’t like my arrogance are not happy with their achievements although some are just very modest... but I’m not. That’s me.

[OlderAndWiser]

If a Caucasian girl marries a Chinese guy named Wong, and they have children, all of their babies will have Chinese characteristics. Know why?

Because two Wongs don't make a white.

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And two wrongs don't make a right. Other people acting arrogant doesn't make it okay for you to act arrogant, also. That just means that you are as obnoxious as they are.

[Asker]

Difference being is that I'm literally quiet as someone can be

I literally don't make any noises when I'm about my business

I'm all about getting to point A to B & onwards & backwards

I don't chit chat with anyone

Don't see how that would irritate anyone

[OlderAndWiser]

Your question: "Why do girls have a problem with me being very arrogant when there just as much as i?"

[Asker]

& that's what I'm curious about

Why would they worry about what a "low teir" individual does with their time?

Shouldn't they be contested with actual competition & threats? Like more attractive & successful females?