Real friends understand you , they don’t try and change you , they’re there through thick and thin as a support system, there’s communication, there’s trust , there’s respect , and lastly there’s compatibility that makes up a good friendship. I don’t call everyone a friend based on my own personal experiences in the past where I was betrayed, lied too , played on my emotions, stabbed in the heart, dealt with fake people , they deceived me , tried to change me. and talked about me behind my back. I’ve let a lot of people go including 10 and 15 year friendships. I’m thinking about changing my number so they can’t contact me anymore. Granted no ones perfect , but finding someone with good intentions nowadays are hard. There are something’s that can’t be granted second chances regardless of how long you’ve been knowing them.