Should I just not go? Do I even have a choice?

[pink_and_inlove]

My dad bought tickets to a foreign country without telling me and apparently I have to stay there for 21 days to see family. I really don’t want to go :( I have my luggage packed and everything and I bought a bunch of clothes just to go but I really don’t want to. I don’t want to not see my boyfriend for that long and No one really feels like family to me anymore :( except for my dad and my grandma my bf’s my family to me. I wish that I could just stay here working.

Updates

+1 y

I think I should just go I’m always going to be sad anyways

[AviatorTom]

Your update answered your question. I will be good to go. You'll experience things you may never get another opportunity to experience. Though you may not like it now, years down the road, this trip may be a very nice memory.

[Mark987]

in my opinion.. go and enjoy it.. your boyfriend will be here when you get back. My biggest regret was not travelling enough when I was younger.. It could be fun

[pink_and_inlove]

But I’ve been there before

[Mark987]

How long ago? just my opinion I would go anywhere to travel.. as you get older it gets harder.. and ya sometimes it sucks.. but it's an experience

[pink_and_inlove]

Like 7 years ago i used to go there every year as a hild though until I turned 11

[Mark987]

Can I ask you what country?

[pink_and_inlove]

The Dominican Republic

[Mark987]

Ahhh kk... look at this way... if you go... you have a great beach... and great weather

[beebella]

You sound like you're a little too dependent on your boyfriend. I think some time away would do you some good, tbh.

[Pink2000]

You should go. Your boyfriend will still be there when you get back.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If you can care for yourself and repay your dad for the ticket stay home
also if you decide to go we will miss you and with all this COVID it's bad

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@pink_and_inlove OMG I'm sad :(

[pink_and_inlove]

Aw why?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@pink_and_inlove Aww I know be happy with your family.. Happy Holidays

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@pink_and_inlove Christmas ((Hugs))

[Wiredone]

You're an adult, you can decide if you want to go or not. Your parents can't force you to go. What would you do if you didn't go? Do you have a job yet? You can use that as an excuse

[pink_and_inlove]

I used to work I love working I would love to het a new job but I haven’t because of my license and the trip

[Wiredone]

I guess you haven't gotten your license yet?

[pink_and_inlove]

My dad made me cancel again

[pink_and_inlove]

And now I have to travel to a different country

[Wiredone]

It sounds like your dad doesn't want you to get your license

[Wiredone]

Regarding update, maybe you will have fun on the trip

[pink_and_inlove]

He said that I wasn’t ready if anything it sounds like he doesn’t believe in me I think

[Wiredone]

Does he still take you out driving? If you don't get to practice you may not pass. I used to take my kids out driving every night no matter what the weather was. Both passed the first time

[pink_and_inlove]

My dad is always working and my mom doesn’t trust herself to help me

[Flower7]

I feel like you shouldn’t go if you don’t want to. Maybe your dad could still get the money back for your ticket.

[TadCurious]

You're 20 years old and 2 years over the age of majority. Of course you have a choice.

[Mango77]

Honestly hun it is upto you don't let anyone dictate what you can and can't do or you're be just making others happy and not yourself

[rod23]

Your 20 , you dont have to go

[rod23]

You could say you dont feel well and tell them you have covid, although that's extreme

[pink_and_inlove]

But I already got Covid last February and I have the vaccine

[rod23]

Lmao yeah ok , we will have to work on something else than

[rod23]

Tell th we're m you can't take time off from work

[loves2learn]

Awwww. She deactivated. 😔😔😔

[slatyb]

You are a legal adult. You don't have to go.

[Abdulwahh]

What about your mother family is above your boyfriend he came afterwards